I’m in the middle of a divorce and part of my growing has been looking at what I did to create the marriage I had, so that I choose the next partner consciously and not sell out ever again. From all of the introspection this year and my mission to learn to love me , I realized I was on the right track. It wasn’t about a partner, it was about me. I learned that I no longer had to hold on to or let myself be loved in a way other than a truly loving and authentic way. I learned that I’d sold out by not listening to what felt right. And…regardless of my history, I deserve real conscious love. Thank you Orna and Matthew for showing me that my true love is out there but first it’s about loving me.