This week’s question comes from Maggie:
Hello Orna and Matthew,
I have been reading your and your clients stories for over a year and I finally have the courage to email you. My life has gotten to the point where I have to reach out and see if there is a possibility to have my life be something other than what I am experiencing.
I am alone in this world and I am going to be that way for the rest of my life. I have been told by some very good psychics that I made a life contract that is solid and I am not to have a love partner this lifetime. The only glimmer of hope and the reason for this email is that a few of the psychics said there is someone waiting for me. If that is true then I want to meet him.
Over the years I have tried to change my contract as some psychics have said it was possible. I meditate and believe in a higher power and the power of our inner beings to guide us. Up until now I haven’t seen any results from my efforts and I know I need more help.
It would be such a miracle if I could meet my life partner and be able to go through life with someone by my side. It does seem unreal that I chose to have no love in this life.
My question is what can I do to finally meet my soulmate? It warms my heart every time I see someone fall in love. I can imagine how much more powerful my work would be if I too had a life partner. Being alone and knowing that I am going to be alone is sooo tough.
Thank you for reading this.
Thanks for reaching out to us and we can feel how much pain you are in. Our question for you is this – How much pain do you have to be in to finally have enough and say goodbye to this story of yours?
In order for you to break free of this contract you have to know that your free will is stronger than any karma, soul contract, astrological condition, or whatever. You have the power within you to break this cycle, but you first have to stop giving your power away to these psychics and their interpretation of your fate.
A psychic or intuitive doesn’t have the power to successfully predict the future 100% of the time. The reason is because we have free will and can make a different choice or take a new action. The psychic is just reading your current energy and seeing where you would be if nothing changed.
You are the one responsible for making that change – no one else can do it for you.
As you mentioned some of the psychics told you that someone is waiting for you and some of them even told you that you can change the supposed contract. This should be more than enough information for you to know that you are not fated to be alone.
Your belief that you are meant to be alone is the biggest block to you overcoming this. You wrote that you finally found the courage to write us. Now you need to find the courage to let go of this belief that isn’t serving you.
We get it. As long as you hold onto this belief you will be safe. You won’t be happy but you will be safe – and safety is the most important thing to our subconscious mind.
It doesn’t care if you are safe and happy or safe and miserable. It just wants to keep things the same. Your subconscious mind committed to homeostasis above all else. In order to break this contract you have to find the courage to stop looking for answers outside of yourself and start believing that you deserve love.
You are not special. Not so special as to be fated to not have love in this life or in any other. You are just like everyone else. You are here on this planet in order to share your experience with another, to feel connected to another. You were born the physical embodiment of the energy of love (just like every child that has come into the world) and you deserve to be loved.
Your first step is to discover the source of this belief that you are unique and don’t deserve love. We can bet it started in your childhood. All of those psychics you’ve spoken to are just reading this energy from this old belief system. Root out the old belief and see it for the falsehood that it is.
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Love and Abundance,