This week's question comes from Nicola:
"Hello Beautiful People!
I met literally by accident a guy on Tinder he told me that he has been divorced three times and was engaged another time to someone else. I am wondering should I meet him or should I run screaming in the other direction? :)
Thanks so much, regards and blessings."
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Dear Nicola,
Yes, it is important to pay attention to how a man shows up so that you can have a clear picture of who he is. The important question is to know what is actually a red flag and what is not.
When we are coaching our private clients through the dating process we always remind them that the men they are dating do
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Will being “Nice” attract my soulmate?
This week's question comes from Monica:
Orna and Matthew,
I’m really struggling right now… one of my close friends just got engaged. This will leave me as the last single gal in my group who has never been married.
When I look at my friends who are married, I can’t seem to see any similarities in how they got hitched that makes me understand what they did right, and what I’m doing wrong.
One good friend of mine has been married 6 years and well… there’s no other way to put it… she’s kind of a bitch. I cannot believe the way she speaks to her husband. I am shocked that he puts up with it, and when I see how he looks at her – he is clearly IN LOVE!
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7 Years – No Itch!
Hello Love On Purpose Community!
Today is our 7-year wedding anniversary so we decided to mix things up and instead of answering one of your questions today, we decided to share our “secrets” with you.
Often times we are surprised to hear from our friends that they think our relationship is EASY! They want what we have…
The truth is that it was very easy in the beginning. We had both transformed our blocks to love, cultivated discernment through the dating process, and were on the search for an ideal match.
Every relationship needs the SPARK of attraction and that chemical high we call “The Romance Stage” in order to create longevity in relationship. It’s like
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When is a need too needy?
This week's question comes from Julia:
"Dear Orna and Matthew,
I have been a fan of yours for a long time and the content you are sharing is very inspiring. I have just watched your video “Why Smart Women Stay Single” [link] and I found the points you made totally make sense. However, I have a question after this video…
I understand that a man likes to feel his woman needs him and that he’s her hero, but at the same time when we are too needy? It seems men are scared, feeling lots of pressure, and start running away.
What’s the difference between show him I need him and too needy?
I really appreciate your answer
Thank you."
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Hi Julia,
Thank
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Is it time to just give up?
This week's question comes from Traci:
Hello Orna and Matthew,
Thank you in advance for answering my question. I’ve been struggling with this for a while and don’t know what to do.
I have had a tendency to start relationships with unavailable men, so I am trying to stop that, but is there just a point where you have to give up? When you live in a remote area where you are involved in just about every thing you can be and still have no ability to meet anyone, is it just time to give up?
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Dear Traci,
Thanks for reaching out to us and we hear the desperation that you are feeling. It can be hard when it seems like no matter what you do, you can’t meet
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Why do I fall in love so quickly?
This week's question comes from Emma:
"Dear Orna and Matthew,
I love reading your notes and believe that you give the best dating advice online. I hope you can help me! I am tired of struggling to find love.
Here is my question:
Why do I fall in love so quickly when I find a man fancies me?
I skip over all the stages of examining if the man is right for me, and dive right into the stage of being in a relationship. And once I am in a relationship, I just get too focused in it, and too ignorant to other parts of my life instantly. I need help."
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Dear Emma,
Thanks for reaching out to us. We want you to know you are not alone. We hear from many
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