This week's question comes from Angie:
"Hi Orna and Matthew :)
Thank you for the work you're doing. Your Love Notes and your teachings resonate with me so much!!
My question is this - how can you tell the difference between your intuition saying "this isn't it" vs your heart just being closed off to love?
I've been dating my boyfriend now for about a year and a half. I love and care about this person, and he has become like a best friend to me, in that we share (almost) everything with each other, have many common values and interests, and almost every day spend time together. However, from the very first time he approached me, I heard what I think was my
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Is it fear or my intuition?
This week's question comes from Julia:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
Thank you so much for the love on purpose revolution. It is great!
I would like to know if there is anything coming up regarding the difference between fear and intuition. I recently split with a man b/c he called me a few really horrible things (cunt and selfish bitch) when I asked him to talk to me about a conflict we were repeatedly having after being together not quite 2 months. He refused to talk to me after my asking several times and so I told him that I was going to leave the restaurant where we were, which is what prompted him to text me those terrible names. The issue was that he wanted to see
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How do I change my subconscious mind?
This week's question comes from Doreen:
"Aloha beautiful professional love couple, :0)
Just one question: how is it possible for you to access (or work or get to know) the sub-/unconscious mind content from anyone as the name says already... it's sub- &/or unconscious?
How could I or you or anybody else get to know all the weird stuff from my unconscious mind in order to delete or change it???
I'm really wondering... :0)
Thanx in advance!
Enjoy your weekend and precious life!
Doreen"
Dear Doreen,
Thanks for the lovely greeting. We understand why you would have this concern as it is difficult, if not impossible, for most people to access their
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Can I keep dating my friend?
This week's question comes from Diana:
"Hi Orna & Matthew,
LOVE NOTES WEEKLY is my favorite thing to read each week. I get so much just from reading about someone else's problem and your reply. Now is my turn.
My husband died 14 years ago and I have been dating ever since, probably starting too soon after my husband died. The kids were younger then and they were a great excuse to not become too involved with any of them. I never actually gave anyone a chance, again, as I have done my whole life, ending the relationship before investing too much into it. My fear of intimacy? My fear of getting hurt? So I would end the relationship before he could or would. That
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I’ve Done It All. Where Is My Soulmate?
This week's question comes from Cha Cha:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
I've been reading and enjoying (!) Your "Love Notes Weekly" for a while now and it all sounds very clear and helpful...
So I wonder if you can help me out of a situation that is really really a paradox:
During the last 15 years I've tried nearly everything in terms of spiritual growth and healing (such as family "settings", ordering from the universe, ho'oponopono, Reiki, shamanic sessions, Psychology of Vision, a Course in Miracles, PSYCH-K, bodywork, radical manifestation, feel better program, ...) in order to find my soulmate and my purpose/calling.
And this is what happened: the surface of
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What if I’m not ready for sex?
This week's question comes from Jennifer:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
I thought I would write in and see if you have any advice.
So I have a question about a date the other night and would love to hear your perspective on this. I'm a 38 year old single woman living in NYC.
I used a line the other night that Evan Marc Katz suggested for when you are in a situation with a man and you don't want to take if further sexually at this time but would eventually like to. "I'd love to ravage you but definitely in the future just not right now." It didn't go so well. We were at a lounge in NYC for drinks and appetizers. He had forgotten his keys in his building so we went to get
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