This week's dating question comes from JT:
Hi Orna and Matthew,
To my delight, I have already been doing all the things you mention in your trainings to bring in the "One." Here's my issue though and I would really appreciate some concrete instruction of what to do about it. My heart is still stuck on my ex husband!
Tragic I know. I'm a capable, strong, open, generous, beautiful 52-year old woman, but this man is still on my mind, daily. I am ready for new love but something keeps pulling me back.
He used my heart as a punching bag (toward the end of our 22 years). I could list dozens of reasons that he is bad for me, but I still love him. It's not
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Attract Your Soulmate
I’m not attracted to the men I meet…
This week's question comes from Christina:
Hi Orna and Matthew,
Hopefully you can help me. I’m getting so frustrated with online dating and am afraid I’ll never meet my soulmate.
My question is - How do I balance trying to find a good man with the need to be attracted to him? I'm trying to be open but am getting frustrated because I try to focus more on the profile online but find that I'm not physically attracted to most of them when we meet.
It all just feels like a waste of time!
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Dear Christina,
It is all too common to feel frustrated with dating, particularly online dating. We hear it all the time from our clients and our
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Do men have a Love Imprint™?
This week's question comes from Joy:
Hi Orna and Matthew,
I've been reading your weekly posts for years, and look forward to Monday to read them.
Today a thought occurred to me, how do men think? It seems the Love Imprint is around women's thought processes. Perhaps I feel this way because, for the most part women write to you, and the responses could be directed from the feminine side. Perhaps Mathew could share, what do men think? Do they also struggle with their past imprints as women?
For instance, when you said, "You are choosing to allow yourself to love men who reflect back to you the energetic dynamic of love that was present for you in your
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Where is my hero?
This week's question comes from Kaia:
Hello Orna and Matthew,
I’ve been on a journey of personal growth for a loooong time. ;)
I know that men want to be your hero and I really want to be with a guy like that! And I’m a strong woman who knows who she is and what she wants.
Is this a contradiction?
We all want to be the heroines in our stories, but how can a woman identify a guy who does or doesn't want to be our hero?
Love you two!
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Dear Kaia,
This is a great question! And we’re sure that many women in our community are wondering the same thing – How do I find a man who wants to be my hero?
We believe that many women who, like you, are
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Diagnosing your dates?
This week's question comes from Liz:
Hi Orna and Matthew,
I am writing to you because I really like how you give it to the person straight up each week in your ezine. I am divorced for several years, and have dated A LOT! I’ve had a few boyfriends since my divorce and I guess what I want to know is why would I be attracting the same kind of men into my life?
I find that the men who show up for me are either more interested in sex than a relationship, or they are narcissists, sociopaths or a combination of the two. I’ve listened to a few of your webinars and that makes me think that there must be something with me that I’m attracting these men over and over
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Just Pick ONE Thing…
This week's question comes from Kari:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
I’m writing to you as this year is quickly ending and I’m feeling like I did last year… A year ago I was thinking that the New Year would be the year that I finally change things and connect with my Soulmate – sadly, that didn’t happen… yet again.
Being on my own doesn’t bother me, I love my job, I have great friends and family, I would like to share my life with someone.
Yes there are things that I could be better about with my own self care, going to the gym regularly, going on dates more often, taking some time to do some hobbies that I have pushed aside for one reason or another.
When I start
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