This week's question comes from Tiffany:
"Dear Orna and Matthew,
First let me say I praise God for you both each day! I recently ended a relationship because it had been over, coincidentally I immediately got into another relationship with another man I care a great deal about. He also has just ended an abusive relationship (she was violent, I've seen this for myself). We have both become so connected but he's decided he must take some time to figure out what he wants. I believe that's true and fair, I'm giving him space. He still is very much intertwined with his ex and I am wondering if I should continue to hope, also should I completely not contact, allowing him to
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Attract Your Soulmate
Can I find love over 50?
This week's question comes from Patricia:
"Dear Orna and Matthew,
Do you think a woman of my age, which is 57, can find true love? I am not one to go on the internet to find it.
Patricia"
Dear Patricia,
We picked your question this week because in 2 short sentences you described exactly why you will find it difficult to create the love you want. Let’s break it down so everyone can understand.
In the first sentence you mention your age – as if love discriminates. Sure it can seem that love comes easier to the young. More of them are single. Most of them aren’t damaged from past bad relationships. More of them are willing to “hook up” without conditions
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What if I don’t really love him?
This week's question comes from Angie:
"Hi Orna and Matthew :)
Thank you for the work you're doing. Your Love Notes and your teachings resonate with me so much!!
My question is this - how can you tell the difference between your intuition saying "this isn't it" vs your heart just being closed off to love?
I've been dating my boyfriend now for about a year and a half. I love and care about this person, and he has become like a best friend to me, in that we share (almost) everything with each other, have many common values and interests, and almost every day spend time together. However, from the very first time he approached me, I heard what I think was my
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Can I keep dating my friend?
This week's question comes from Diana:
"Hi Orna & Matthew,
LOVE NOTES WEEKLY is my favorite thing to read each week. I get so much just from reading about someone else's problem and your reply. Now is my turn.
My husband died 14 years ago and I have been dating ever since, probably starting too soon after my husband died. The kids were younger then and they were a great excuse to not become too involved with any of them. I never actually gave anyone a chance, again, as I have done my whole life, ending the relationship before investing too much into it. My fear of intimacy? My fear of getting hurt? So I would end the relationship before he could or would. That
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I’ve Done It All. Where Is My Soulmate?
This week's question comes from Cha Cha:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
I've been reading and enjoying (!) Your "Love Notes Weekly" for a while now and it all sounds very clear and helpful...
So I wonder if you can help me out of a situation that is really really a paradox:
During the last 15 years I've tried nearly everything in terms of spiritual growth and healing (such as family "settings", ordering from the universe, ho'oponopono, Reiki, shamanic sessions, Psychology of Vision, a Course in Miracles, PSYCH-K, bodywork, radical manifestation, feel better program, ...) in order to find my soulmate and my purpose/calling.
And this is what happened: the surface of
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