This week's question comes from Joelle:
Dear Orna and Matthew,
I have been following you both for some time now and I’ve been doing my best to really get a grasp of my Love Imprint and why I’m still struggling when it comes to having a long-term relationship.
Being successful very young in my career path may have set me up to have disappointment in my love life. I have been married, divorced, I raised two beautiful children who have families of their own, and yet, I find I am unhappy.
I just can’t seem to be the same person when it comes to love. I can make things happen in my business easily and yet feel like such a failure in my relationships. I feel
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Blocks to Love
Should love feel exciting?
This week's question comes from Heather:
Dear Orna and Matthew,
You have talked about the subconscious seeking what is familiar whether good or bad...
I get that. What I don't understand is how that translates into something "EXCITING" ie : "This is familiar, this is familiar!" How is something familiar... exciting?
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Dear Heather,
Thank you for your question. We see how this can be confusing. The simple answer is that the only difference between fear and excitement is the inner dialog we are having about the experience. When we experience either fear or excitement, we have the same physical reaction. Our heart rate increases, our breath
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Should I wait for him to contact me?
This week's question comes from Mara:
"My high school sweetheart & I recently started dating again. I never fell out of love with him and it's really wonderful to have him back in my life. He was my "one that got away" & "the love of my life" so that he's back in my life after 10+ years apart & we're going on dates again is pretty amazing.
The reason we broke up the first time, about a month before we left for college, was he didn't have enough time for me. Now we've had three amazing dates & in theory, we're supposed to go on a lunch date sometime this week & meet up in the evening sometime next week, but he hasn't called to lock down which day(s)
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How do I overcome my unhappy childhood?
This week's question comes from Pauletta:
"Why is it harder for people who didn't feel love as children to feel love and trust as adults? Do they ever really overcome the whole thing? If so, what can they do or try to help overcome it?"
Dear Pauletta,
This is a very big question and is the basis for the work we do. It all comes from Your Love Imprint™ and how that affects your relationship choices. You didn't let us know if this question is about you in particular, but we're going to answer it as if it is about you.
When you were born, you had no blocks to love. A newborn baby is able to give and receive love freely without any conditions. But as you grew, you
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Lonely man looking for a date…
This week's question comes from Victor:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
I have a question.
I'm a 50 year-old male and becoming more and withdrawn moving further and further away from dating. Only last week, I had set up a date only to cancel. It's been years since I've been in a relationship with a woman.
At the rate I'm going, I'm clearly not going to get to married and yet there is certainly a side of me that wants to connect, although I'm moving in the complete opposite direction. I'm just so not sure that I'm cut out for marriage, which would be a huge tragedy.
I am becoming more and more withdrawn from family as well. It's all not good.
I guess I'm wondering
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How do I change my subconscious mind?
This week's question comes from Doreen:
"Aloha beautiful professional love couple, :0)
Just one question: how is it possible for you to access (or work or get to know) the sub-/unconscious mind content from anyone as the name says already... it's sub- &/or unconscious?
How could I or you or anybody else get to know all the weird stuff from my unconscious mind in order to delete or change it???
I'm really wondering... :0)
Thanx in advance!
Enjoy your weekend and precious life!
Doreen"
Dear Doreen,
Thanks for the lovely greeting. We understand why you would have this concern as it is difficult, if not impossible, for most people to access their
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