This week's question comes from Mollie:
"I am heartbroken and I really hope you can help me with overcoming rejection. I’ve been struggling for years with dating after my divorce and I was about to give up ever finding love again when I met a man online that I thought was “The One.”
I mean this like nothing before. We had so much in common, felt so good together, and we laughed and talked a lot before meeting via text, and on the phone. When we finally met in person it was clear there was great chemistry between us.
We dated exclusively for 3 months and I fell deeply in love with him. Then he started getting weird – not calling for days, being checked out when I
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Blocks to Love
5 Strategies For Leaving Emotional Baggage Behind
This week's question comes from Jessica:
"Dear Orna and Matthew,
I want your help leaving my emotional baggage behind! I’ve had lots of issues around relationships and I feel like I can’t help but bring that baggage into my current relationship.
I’m almost 50 and I’m not even sure I want to be married. My boyfriend and I really enjoy each other’s company there are a lot of great things in this relationship.
He’s never been engaged or married, and I’ve been engaged a couple of times in the past but never walked down the aisle. I know I have a lot of energy around marriage and weddings… most of it not so great.
This is my stuff and I explain that to my
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How Long Does It Take To Heal A Broken Heart (From Soulmate Coaches Who Know)
If you are suffering from a broken heart, you may fall into the trap of believing that your feelings of hurt, sadness, or betrayal will never end. If you find yourself wondering exactly how long does it take to heal a broken heart, we’ve laid out the healing journey for you.
Neither of us found love early or easily. We became Love Coaches because we both struggled into our 40s to find lasting love. We both suffered our share of heartbreak and know from personal experience that you can move on from your grief and find soul-satisfying, long-lasting love on the other side.
How long it takes to heal from a broken heart may not be a prescribed timeframe that fits
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Tired Of Being Single? 8 Reasons To Celebrate This Time In Your Life
Are you tired of being single? Feeling frustrated that your guy hasn’t shown up yet, or sick of meeting the wrong man online over and over again?
This isn’t a time to focus on what you don’t have. Instead focus on celebrating you and enjoying this time of your life. So much of life is what you make of it. Why not take this time to step into a bigger vision of yourself and your life? As the saying goes, “There’s no time like the present!”
When you focus on what’s good in your life and use your time to learn and grow, then no matter what happens – you win!
Let’s take a dive into how you can use this time to discover, learn, explore, and celebrate.
8 Reasons to
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Should I Choose My Twin Flame Over A Man Who Seems Good For Me, Or Follow My Heart Instead?
This week's question comes from Alicia:
"Dear Orna and Matthew,
I’m so grateful I found out about you two a couple of years ago. You give me hope! Here’s my question… a guy I thought was my twin flame recently showed back up in my life. Years ago he broke my heart and I’ve done a lot of work to forgive him for what happened.
The problem is there is a guy at work who I’ve started dating. He’s a great guy and I can tell he is crazy about me. There’s no issue about dating in the workplace, we are in completely different departments. A lot of my colleagues and friends think he’s really good for me and I can see what a stand-up guy he is.
The thing is, I don’t find
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Why Men Love Bitches
This week's question comes from Christine:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
I have been reading your newsletters for years and I think you give the best dating advice for women. One of the things I like the most is that I get input from both a man and a woman! I am super curious what you will think of my question. Why do men love bitches more than nice girls?
I know I’m an attractive woman – getting dates is not hard for me. I do end up being broken-hearted by the men I really like and I know I’ve broken my fair share of men’s hearts too.
We often hear about the “nice” guy who is not given his due by women – but what about the Nice Gal?
When I meet a guy I REALLY like I
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