This week's question comes from Christina:
Hi Orna and Matthew,
Hopefully you can help me. I’m getting so frustrated with online dating and am afraid I’ll never meet my soulmate.
My question is - How do I balance trying to find a good man with the need to be attracted to him? I'm trying to be open but am getting frustrated because I try to focus more on the profile online but find that I'm not physically attracted to most of them when we meet.
It all just feels like a waste of time!
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Dear Christina,
It is all too common to feel frustrated with dating, particularly online dating. We hear it all the time from our clients and our
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Where is my hero?
This week's question comes from Kaia:
Hello Orna and Matthew,
I’ve been on a journey of personal growth for a loooong time. ;)
I know that men want to be your hero and I really want to be with a guy like that! And I’m a strong woman who knows who she is and what she wants.
Is this a contradiction?
We all want to be the heroines in our stories, but how can a woman identify a guy who does or doesn't want to be our hero?
Love you two!
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Dear Kaia,
This is a great question! And we’re sure that many women in our community are wondering the same thing – How do I find a man who wants to be my hero?
We believe that many women who, like you, are
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The gift of saying, “No!”
This week's question comes from Diane:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
As the holiday season is fast approaching I am starting to find that I am stressed out more than usual. I’m doing my best to balance my work, my kids, and the guy I’m dating and I feel like I’m failing… at all of it!
I think you give the best dating advice for women, and I’m hoping that will translate into Life Advice.
What can I do when I feel like there is too much on my plate?
Overwhelmed and Overworked."
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Hi Diane,
Thank you for reaching out to us. As Soulmate Coaches for women, we have tackled this issue many times with clients through the years.
Let us introduce you to two
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Where is my soulmate?
"Hi Orna and Matthew!
I really love reading your Love Notes. They are so inspiring.
I have one question regarding my soulmate. I have been trying to manifest my perfect soulmate for the past two years but haven’t found him so far. I have created a vision of him and I keep setting the intention that he will show up.
I am not sure what else I’m supposed to be doing. I hope that you can give me some advice to find my soulmate! I’m getting tired of waiting for him.
Thanks!"
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Dear Maddie,
Thanks for reaching out to us. We can hear your frustration in your email and we know that many women in our community feel the same way.
We are glad to see that
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What it takes to remove blocks to love…
This week's question comes from Annette:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
I really like your direct approach in how you answer these questions every week. I must admit I’m a bit addicted to reading your blog. By far, you seem to have the best dating advice.
My question is this: What does it take to remove blocks to love?
I understand why I’m blocked. I think I have all the insights that I’ve searched for over a decade now. Unfortunately, I’m still attracting the same kind of emotionally unavailable men.
The men that I’m attracted to seem different in the beginning, yet all my relationships seem to end up at the same place in the end. At first it was the guy breaking
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How do I get my needs met?
This week's question comes from Suzanne:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
My question is:
What would be the most important thing to do for yourself if you have that “no needs” complex due to having grown up in an alcoholic family?
Thank you very much and I hope you choose to answer my question because I really think you two care about your community and give the best dating advice."
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Hi Suzanne,
Thank you for your question and we completely understand that with the set of circumstances you grew up with in your family of origin that you learned to get by without having your needs met and to sacrifice for the needs of others.
The first step is the most
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