We hear from so many women who are tired of being alone and are looking for a new way to create love. It’s easy to get caught in the mindset trap that there is something wrong with you (or the world) because you are single. And when you commiserate with your single friends you hear the same dating and relationship horror stories that you’ve experienced yourself.
It’s enough to make you bitter about relationships and once again committed to your career instead of finding your soulmate.
It’s time to take a new look at loneliness so that instead of feeling tired of being alone, you can re-frame the whole experience into something that spurs you on towards the
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Blocks to Love
5 Skills For How To Heal A Broken Heart And Move On
One of the hardest things you will ever experience in life is a broken heart. You start a relationship with so much hope and yet by the time it is over, that hope is on life-support and you’re curled up into a ball and crying your eyes out. If only you knew how to heal a broken heart and move on.
It seems like each time your heart breaks, it hardens a little as you swear you will never let that happen to you again.
The truth is you can learn how to heal a broken heart and move on, becoming better at love – more vulnerable, more loving, more skilled at making it last – when you decide to learn and grow from the experience instead of being broken by it.
Whether you
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Over 40? What Emotional Baggage Are You Carting Around That’s Keeping You Single
It’s time to leave your old emotional baggage behind so that you can create the kind of love that you want!
Let’s face it, as you get older it can feel like it is harder to meet someone who isn’t carrying a cartload of emotional baggage. Just listen to the dating horror stories that you and your friends exchange with each other. It can feel like dating is hopeless for those moving into the second half of life.
But the problem isn’t just with all the weirdos you may meet on some random app or dating site. The truth is you’ve got some of your own baggage that is getting in the way of your relationship success. You may not be aware of it, but you’re probably carrying
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5 Ways Self-Sabotage Is Keeping You Single
This week's question comes from Sheri:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
How can I shift/release/realign the incredibly painful belief that "I'm not wanted"?! Recently I had this pain triggered again by a man that I KNOW I don’t want a relationship with when I discovered he’s in touch with another woman. I'm afraid I'm sabotaging my relationships again.
I’ve done a ton of work on this belief and I’ve become clear how I’m the one who sabotaged my past relationships because of this fear. I really feel discouraged that this belief was triggered again despite all the healing I’ve done.
Part of me feels like I will never have the kind of relationship I want. Now, I know that
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Do I Have A Twin Flame?
This week's question comes from Madison:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
I’ve been reading and watching everything you two do for years now. I love how you interact with one another. It’s clear there is so much love there. I printed out a photo of you two from your website years ago where you’re kissing in front of a merry-go-round and I’ve had it on my vision board with the words, “Twin Flame” as a headline at the top of it.
You give the best dating advice for women that I’ve found anywhere. So here’s my question – do I have a twin flame and how do I find him?
I want to be with the person who gets me and loves me and who I know I can count on. I want that deep soulful,
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Truth About Love Blocks
This week's question comes from Rebecca:
"Hey Orna and Matthew,
I just love you two! You’re always sharing the best of the best through your own experience and with your clients. I find it refreshing and truly awesome.
I hear from all over the place about “love blocks.” I’ve heard them called road blocks, subconscious blocks, blocks you’re not aware of, blocks to love, etc.
It appears there are all kinds of solutions to these blocks from having conversations with your parents (if they are alive), getting closure from speaking with an ex, to writing things down and burning them, etc.
What’s the deal with these so-called blocks? How can I get rid of something
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