This week's question comes from Andrea:
"Orna and Matthew,
Thank you for all that you do to help those dating after divorce get back out in the world and date. I’ve been single for the last five years and although I’ve had plenty of interesting experiences with men, I haven’t found my soulmate.
I really want to spend my life with “my man,” I just don’t know why I am having such a hard time finding him. I’m 47 and I’m in great shape. I’m successful in my life and I everyone I know would refer to me as “a catch!”
I really want to know what is in my way and so I’ve been looking through my past relationships and I cannot seem to find what you refer to as The
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Dating from the C-Suite
Dating 911 – I deselect everyone!
This week's question comes from Nancy:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
Calling Dating 911…. Help me put out this fire… that is burning a hole in my heart.
How do I stop this constant screening in my mind of a guy the minute I see a guy flirt or take an interest in me? I think this tearing people apart the minute I see someone or something happening that I don’t like is hurting my chances for great guys to get into my world or me in theirs.
Honestly, I just want a great guy BUT, I scrutinize the heck out of anyone as my time is too valuable to be hanging with the takers, mushers, needy and lesser, etc.
MY QUALITY TIME IS THE MOST INVALUABLE ASSET more than anything
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Do I ask him out? Part II
This week's question comes from Tali:
"Hi Orna and Matthew
Thanks for all the great work you do! I've bought a few of your programs and love them!!
My question is stemming from your recent response to Joyce's question that you answered last week.
I understand the dynamics of feminine and masculine energy, and you mentioned “stay in the energy (the one you choose/prefer) during the dating process.”
The guy I'm dating has asked me to be exclusive but does that mean now I can be a bit more in my masculine? (I'm wondering what you meant by stay in your specific energy ONLY during the dating process and once you’re in a committed relationship you can shift a
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How can I attract a match?
This week's question comes from Jahari:
"Hello Orna and Matthew,
I really need your help! I’m reaching out because I think you two give the best dating advice… here’s my story:
I have been single for 15 years. I've "peeked out" periodically to try forming relationships with a few men who seemed eligible. A couple men were emotionally unavailable and seemed to want a relationship, but I soon figured out they wanted sex without commitment.
I have a LOT on the ball. I am very giving, while being able to receive as well. I am attractive, look and feel much younger than my chronological years, am a health professional (Raw Vegan Chef/Health & Nutrition Coach).
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How do I start dating again?
This week's question comes from Nickie:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
I really need the best dating advice to help me with this situation. I hope you can help.
I have been out of a long-term relationship for about 3 months though it was over about a year before. I know it is over and see why it could not work with us. A couple of nights ago friends introduced me to a man who seemed completely into me and we just clicked and he was so easy to talk to. The problem is we had such a great time and after a little too much alcohol we got intimate. Have I completely ruined the chance of a possible relationship? Will he never respect me? And if he does call how can I change this
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Is your love-ability on the line?
This week's question comes from Trudie:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
I think you two are awesome! I love watching you interact on your webinars, it’s clear that you are real people who love one another. Thank you for being a shining example of what it is that I want!
Since I read your weekly notes I know that you’re always advising to date A LOT, so that’s what I’ve been doing. Unfortunately, I am not getting the results that I want and I think I may be feeling a bit depressed about it.
I get plenty of action online and offline from guys but nothing seems to really go anywhere. I can’t remember dating someone for longer than a couple of months. Whether I’m crazy
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