This week's question comes from Joanie:
Dear Orna and Matthew,
I am a highly educated woman and I work mostly with men as I am an engineer. I have spent the majority of my adult life really working hard to establish myself in a field ruled by men, and I’ve been very successful in that part of my life.
Now that I’ve been reading your emails and watching your videos I’m starting to understand why I haven’t been able to maintain a great love relationship. I guess you could say I have overly-developed my masculine side at the expense of my feminine.
When you speak about feminine energy being receptive I must be honest, I’m a bit lost. You say that it’s not
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Get Ready for Love
Tired of One Night Stands?
This week's question comes from Anonymous:
"Dear Orna and Matthew,
I have been in and out of relationships for the past two years. I want to fall in love again. I am tired of one night stands! Please help me, I need to know how to attract love. I miss loving!"
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Dear Anonymous,
We hear you, and we want you to know that we've been where you are. Wanting love, desiring love, and feeling like it is no where to be found. So here are several suggestions for you to begin creating love on purpose immediately:
1. If you don't like one night stands - STOP HAVING THEM! (We feel there is no more to share on this subject as this is pretty darn clear. Simply
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How Do I Keep the Faith?
This week's question comes from Jackie:
Dear Orna and Matthew,
I recently came out of a 4-year relationship in which I felt I had so much and in the end I had to walk away from it, as he never came through with his intentions. I believe he had stopped wanting to try and stayed in the relationship for a period of time before we split, waiting for me to make decision. He moved on very quickly which hurt me even more.
I have been spending so much time trying to heal and deal with my grief, I believe the decision was right and that I will love and be loved again but it is so hard when meeting that person appears hard for me and has been so easy for him.
Can
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How Do I Know If He’s ‘The One?’
This week's question comes from Donna:
Hi Orna and Matthew,
Thank you so much for your teleclasses and webinars. I'm learning so much from you both. I have a question, I've been dating this guy for about 4 months, I like him a lot, he seems to like me a lot. How do I know if he is 'The One?'
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Hi Donna,
Great question! Pay attention to how you FEEL when you are spending time with him. Are you comfortable with him? Do you feel like you can be yourself? Does he inspire you? Can the two of you communicate clearly with one another? Pay attention to how he speaks with you. When you share how you feel, does he then tell you how he feels? Does he judge your
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Too Good to be True?
This week's question comes from Julie:
Dear Orna and Matthew,
I have been getting your emails for several weeks now, and find them very inspirational.
After being hurt, badly, by my ex husband, many years ago, and then again, after a 3 year relationship, which ended a year ago, I have opened up my heart, and taken a leap of faith, in hopes, of finding my real soulmate.
2 months ago, I was browsing through an online dating site, and a picture stopped me in my tracks, the profile, was the most articulated had ever read, and it struck a chord of recognition in my heart. I then tried to contact this man, only to find his profile was taken off, I contacted the
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Losing Your Enthusiasm for Dating?
This week's question comes from Therese:
Hello Orna and Matthew,
My enthusiasm is waning. Being a 58 year-old gal that sees the positive aspects of online dating is the sole thing that allows me to not give up hope. I have yet to meet or find any man that has any prospect of a solid relationship in my time that I have participated in online dating. This would be more than 5 years. The dating "gurus" continue to extoll that finding an eligible man is still possible. I yearn for a man that is decent, honest and interested in dating that would lead to a partnership in life.
Perhaps you can offer some guidance or words of encouragement?
Gratefully
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