When I first met Orna, I kept telling her that she was everything I was looking for. I knew deep down that this was the woman for me, even if on the surface I was still just getting to know her. If you’re interested in understanding what a man looks for in a soulmate then please continue reading to find out how I knew Orna was the one for me.
The summer before I met Orna I dated a woman named Susan who I thought was the perfect woman for me. She was a yoga teacher and a meditator. She was a vegan who grew her own organic produce in her back yard. She was dedicated to her personal and spiritual growth. She loved camping and the great outdoors. And she had dark curly
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Lasting Love
Is Chivalry Dead And Other Questions Women Ask As They Grow Frustrated In Their Search For Love
Is Chivalry Dead & Other Questions Women Ask As They Grow Frustrated In Their Search For Love
So many women we speak with are confused by the way the men they meet are behaving. Men don’t call you up and ask you out for a date; they text the day of to see if you are available to hang out. Men act interested, only to disappear into thin air. Men press for sex but go M.I.A. when you mention the word commitment. It’s enough to make you ask, “Is chivalry dead?”
These same women also desire to be with men who treat them like a queen, step up when help is needed, and are supportive of their career.
So what happened? Why has it become so difficult for men and women to
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How To Choose A Good Husband?
This week's question comes from Alisha:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
I have been gobbling up everything you two put out for many years. I love seeing how you interact with one another. It gives me hope to see you two, the hope that someday I can have lasting-love.
One of the things I’m unsure about is how to choose a good husband, someone I can really trust. It seems like a daunting task to select a partner for life – and yet that is exactly what I want. I want great love, one that will last a lifetime.
Is there a set criteria that I need to know? Is there something specific that I must include? I’m always afraid that I’ll miss something really important. Like when I
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Do I Have A Twin Flame?
This week's question comes from Madison:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
I’ve been reading and watching everything you two do for years now. I love how you interact with one another. It’s clear there is so much love there. I printed out a photo of you two from your website years ago where you’re kissing in front of a merry-go-round and I’ve had it on my vision board with the words, “Twin Flame” as a headline at the top of it.
You give the best dating advice for women that I’ve found anywhere. So here’s my question – do I have a twin flame and how do I find him?
I want to be with the person who gets me and loves me and who I know I can count on. I want that deep soulful,
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How To Know If He’s The One
This week's question comes from Jamie:
"Hi O&M,
I’ve been reading your emails for nearly 7 years. I love watching your webinars, and seeing your straight up approach to answering questions. Now here is mine:
How do I know if he’s the one?
I’ve been through your Soulmate Shortcut course nearly 4 years ago and by following everything you laid out step-by-step I ended up in a great relationship with a fabulous guy.
After being divorced, with work and taking care of my kids, I just didn’t think I had the time to figure things out how to do a relationship differently, and the last thing I wanted was to end up at the same place again with everything falling
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You & The Empathic Man…
This week's question comes from Marcie:
“Dear Orna and Matthew,
I’ve been dating a great guy for a few months and he’s really different from the type of man I’ve dated in the past. He clearly loves me deeply and has a sensitive heart. At times I feel like he is so in tune with how I’m feeling and it feels really incredible.
The men I used to date didn’t ever seem to care about me at all, really a bunch of insensitive jerks.
I am so grateful to have him in my life and I don’t want to do anything to lose him, so I’m writing to you for your help and advice.
The problem is that sometimes it seems like he’s not present with me at all. I can’t get a sense of him.
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