This week's question comes from Suzanne:
“Hi Orna and Matthew,
My question is:
What would be the most important thing to do for yourself if you have that “no needs” complex due to having grown up in an alcoholic family?
Thank you very much and I hope you choose to answer my question because I really think you two care about your community and give the best dating advice.”
Thank you for your question and we completely understand that with the set of circumstances you grew up with in your family of origin that you learned to get by without having your needs met and to sacrifice for the needs of others.
The first step is the most important and you’ve already done that – AWARENESS!
We cannot change anything we are not aware of. So we want to congratulate you on first knowing your love strategies that are in the way of you having the love you desire.
After awareness, the next step is to get support from someone trained to work with the subconscious to create change.
On your own, it is very difficult and slow going to create the change you desire. It’s like a slightly stretched our slinky – you move forward just a little, and come around again, move forward a little and come around again… lather, rinse, repeat… etc.
So our question for you is this: How many times are you willing to ‘round and ‘round with the same set of strategies and not much change?
These strategies worked for you as a little girl to survive in your family of origin and to FEEL loved and safe. So these strategies serve a purpose, and they are very familiar so they will hang on thinking they are doing you a favor!
The fun part of how we facilitate transformation with our clients includes:
- Not going over and over past events
- Utilizing the language of the subconscious – symbol, image, story and metaphor
- Releasing old strategies and guiding you to new and improved ones (strategies that get you what you want and need)
- Being able to cultivate discernment through the dating process so you can select an ideal match for long-lasting, soul-satisfying love
Transformation requires some commitment of time. Just like a lemon on a tree, it doesn’t go from being hard and solid green to being soft, ripe, and yellow in a moment… it takes time.
We excel at transforming our client’s Love Imprints with cutting edge tools like Neuro-linguistic programming, Hypnosis, Scientific Non-Predictive Palmistry, and Therapeutic Imagery. This vast toolbox allows us to effectively and efficiently create positive change so that our clients can get the love they want.
Are you willing to move forward by leaps and bounds to release yourself of these old strategies?
If the answer is “YES!” then book Your Love Imprint® Session here: www.YourLoveImprint.com.
Let us share with you exactly how to go from where you are to where you want to be – plus all the tools for soul-satisfying, long-lasting love.
Love and Abundance,