This week's question comes from Isabel:
"Dear Orna and Matthew,
How long does it take to fall in love for real? I’m confused and I hope you can help me!
My boyfriend of 3 months keeps telling me that he is so in love with me. He’s always saying how much he loves me. I’m not sure I’ve had enough time to know how I feel about him. I’m afraid he is hurt by my not telling him yet and I don’t want him to go find someone else. I think I just need more time to know for sure before I say the L-word.
He’s a great guy and I find him attractive. We met online and he pursued me right away. I just don’t know if he’s the one. Should I know right away?
I’m so confused.
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What Are His Intentions? 9 Soulmate Signs You Should Look For In A Man
This week's question comes from Laura:
“Hello Orna & Matthew,
I’m confused by a man I met online a while ago. I wonder what are his intentions for me? How do I even ask about his intentions?
We met on a dating site and he’s an attorney who lives in Michigan, while I live in Indiana.
We exchanged pictures and talked for a few weeks. I felt we had a strong connection and I really thought he could be my soulmate. He talked about driving to meet me, but to make a long story short, it never happened. I didn’t hear from him again until December last year.
He says he wishes he had made the trip, apologizes, and tells me how much he looks at my pictures, and
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Why Splitting Up May Have Been The Greatest Gift: 9 Secrets About Finding Love After Divorce
Divorce can be one of the most difficult experiences of your life. So the prospect of finding love after divorce can feel daunting. Do you really want to get out there and risk your heart again? Are you ready to let yourself feel vulnerable and open to love?
What if we told you that your divorce was actually one of the most profound things that you have experienced and that coming out the other side you would be able to create a relationship that could stand the test of time? Whether you are still holding onto hope from your marriage or feeling hopeless about your prospects moving forward, you can forge a new path and a more fulfilling and lasting partnership.
The
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25 Common Sense Questions To Get To Know Someone At A Deep, Soul Level
One of the most enjoyable parts about dating is getting to know someone new and discovering what makes them tick. Asking the right questions to get to know someone can reveal a lot about who they are at a soul level and allow the two of you to connect deeply.
If you want to make a connection with someone you’ve just met, avoid small talk and discussing likes and dislikes. Keeping things on a superficial level isn’t going to create the connection you’re looking for.
Ask questions that are revealing and either create rapport or give you the information you need to deselect the person who is not a good match. Questions about their job or their past dating experiences
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No Chemistry? How Long Should You Wait For Attraction?
This week's question comes from Julia:
“Hi Orna and Matthew,
Question: If I have no chemistry with a guy I’ve met, how long do I wait to see if attraction develops between us?
I have met a very nice man. We share some of the same hobbies, like books and music. He is retired and has tons of time; I work full time and also have a photography business and am very busy with limited time. This is sometimes a problem, but my real question is about sexual attraction. How soon do you think you know?
I thought we had some chemistry but now I’m not so sure (at least on my part). He says he is attracted to me, but I am having trouble recognizing his cues. He is a very
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When A Man Falls In Love He Shows His True Feelings In These 11 Ways
When a man falls in love with you it won’t be a mystery. He will show his feelings to you in very specific ways. And you won’t have to be a mind reader if you pay attention to his not so subtle way of falling for you.
How many times have you met a great guy and it doesn’t go anywhere? He’s attractive and the two of you have a lot in common and you start to hope you’ll be a match, but then the relationship never goes anywhere. He doesn’t reach out or text you, but responds to you when you reach out. The relationship runs hot-cold until eventually it just fizzles out, and you find yourself single, heartbroken, and confused, yet again.
Do you find yourself constantly
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