This week's dating question comes from Brandon:
Dear Orna and Matthew,
How do you tend to a two-year-old broken heart?
My fiancée and I ended a long-distance relationship just over two years ago. I understood her reasons behind wanting to end it, yet it still hurts in that in my highest hopes I had found the woman I'd spend the rest of my life with. Needless to say, in time, she has found someone else. I am very happy for her (and told her as such), yet there is still the pain of not being able to make the relationship work.
I know in time that I will feel better and know that someone will come along to allow me to move forward. In the meantime, the pain and
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How do you shift the negative beliefs?
This week's relationship question comes from Darya:
Dear Orna and Matthew,
Thanks for your work. I always read your posts!! I have a question for you about negative beliefs or patters that lots of people have. To be honest, love is not so easy for me, even if I shifted lots of inner clutter in my life!
So my question is - how do you shift the negative beliefs? I know, lots of teachers talk about theoretical stuff, but how do you use it in real life, I mean real working techniques?
Thanks in advance for your reply.
Dear Darya,
Thank you for your kind words. We’re so thrilled to hear that you have received benefit from reading our
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How much space should I give him?
This week's question comes from Tiffany:
"Dear Orna and Matthew,
First let me say I praise God for you both each day! I recently ended a relationship because it had been over, coincidentally I immediately got into another relationship with another man I care a great deal about. He also has just ended an abusive relationship (she was violent, I've seen this for myself). We have both become so connected but he's decided he must take some time to figure out what he wants. I believe that's true and fair, I'm giving him space. He still is very much intertwined with his ex and I am wondering if I should continue to hope, also should I completely not contact, allowing him to
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My boyfriend smokes too much pot
This week's question comes from Terri:
"Hello Orna and Matthew,
I've been dating this guy for about 5 months and for the most part it has been really great. He's really sweet and we talk a lot and I'm really attracted to him. I want it to work out. It's just that he smokes a lot of pot and I don't. I've never really been into it. I don't even drink that much. One drink and I'm pretty much done for the night. He told me he's been smoking for years and it isn't a problem. He's got a great job and makes good money so it's not he's a useless stoner. But, he smokes pretty regularly - at least 5 to 6 times a week. I have asked him to quit numerous times, but he insists that
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Can I find love over 50?
This week's question comes from Patricia:
"Dear Orna and Matthew,
Do you think a woman of my age, which is 57, can find true love? I am not one to go on the internet to find it.
Patricia"
Dear Patricia,
We picked your question this week because in 2 short sentences you described exactly why you will find it difficult to create the love you want. Let’s break it down so everyone can understand.
In the first sentence you mention your age – as if love discriminates. Sure it can seem that love comes easier to the young. More of them are single. Most of them aren’t damaged from past bad relationships. More of them are willing to “hook up” without conditions
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Lonely man looking for a date…
This week's question comes from Victor:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
I have a question.
I'm a 50 year-old male and becoming more and withdrawn moving further and further away from dating. Only last week, I had set up a date only to cancel. It's been years since I've been in a relationship with a woman.
At the rate I'm going, I'm clearly not going to get to married and yet there is certainly a side of me that wants to connect, although I'm moving in the complete opposite direction. I'm just so not sure that I'm cut out for marriage, which would be a huge tragedy.
I am becoming more and more withdrawn from family as well. It's all not good.
I guess I'm wondering
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