This week's question comes from Julie:
Hi Orna and Matthew,
I am new to your community and I really love what you say about blocks to love. My question is more along the lines of how people create love… does a person have to be lucky to have it?
When I see people that are in healthy relationships (which is not that often) I find myself thinking how lucky they are. I did that when I first found out about you two… I though you were LUCKY to have found each other.
After listening to you both some more I know you say to pay attention to my inner dialog and this is how I discovered this voice in my head about luck.
What can you tell me about luck and love? I am super curious to know your thoughts.
We think you’re question is a compelling one and we’re so glad you asked about Luck and Love.
Honestly, we wish we could speak with you because we have a couple questions for you that would help us in how to respond so we can serve you in the best way possible.
Do YOU think that one must be lucky to have love?
Do you think that YOU are a lucky person?
Since you noticed your inner dialog saying things like “They are LUCKY to have found each other,” we are going to assume that you’d answer YES to question #1.
We know nothing of your relationship history so we are stumped as to how you would answer question #2.
For certain we know that if one believes that Luck is required, or plays a part in Love, then in order to create love, one must also believe they are in fact LUCKY.
The truth is that the world is as we believe it to be.
If you believe you are unlucky then you will have experiences that show you how unlucky you are. If you believe you are very lucky, then it will seem that miracles follow you wherever you go.
Luck and Love have zero connection except in your own belief system.
The myth of Accidental Love is strong and permeates our entire society. What we know is that LOVE is a CHOICE.
There is a skill-set that anyone can learn to cultivate discernment, learn communication tools, and create soul-satisfying, long-lasting love.
What we’ve noticed is that most people don’t want to commit to this skill-set. They have resistance to change; they have a commitment to their pain and their heartache, and they wear it as a badge of honor.
It’s a way of staying safe. Remaining with what they know, what is familiar, and is in alignment with their past experiences.
Only a small percentage of people are willing to make the commitment to create change in their set strategies about how they give and receive love.
Changing our behavior is one of the hardest things we can do. Think about all the people who would like to quit smoking, or gambling, or drinking. The tools we use to create change within our clients has a proven success record because we work directly with the source of those behaviors – the subconscious mind.
If you are interested in learning more about how you can create your own luck in love, the first step is apply for a Your Love Imprint® session with us.
During this session we will identify the system in your subconscious mind that is blocking you from the love you want. We’ll also share ways that you can permanently transform Your Love Imprint® so that love comes easily and gain the skills for soul-satisfying, long-lasting love.
That link to apply for Your Love Imprint session is here.
Whether you think you are lucky or unlucky in love what you believe to be true and what you desire must be in alignment for love to come in and last. Having a Your Love Imprint® session with us will let you know the current setting in your GPS for love.
Love and Abundance,