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Sacrificing your happiness for someone else’s comfort?

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This week's question comes from Rheena: "Hi Orna and Matthew, I hope you can help me. I am 58, relatively attractive, healthy, really interesting and smart – everyone in my family are nice people, my children, my siblings, my parents, all of us really nice people. I've been divorced 5 years and I recently ran into my ex at a close friend’s daughter’s wedding (we were her godparents when we were together so we were both invited to the wedding). I knew he had remarried, but I had never
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How Do I Get My Expectations Met?

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This week's question comes from Tiffany:   Hey Orna and Matthew, I have a quick question about expectations. I know that one should have a "no expectations" attitude towards those they love (family, friends, partners, etc.), but how do you distinguish expectations from standards and requirements? --- Dear Tiffany, Great question! Let's just get right to it.  Expectations are desires that are not expressed. We expect our man to be able to anticipate our needs. We expect our family
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I don’t want to regress into my old patterns…

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This week's question comes from Susana: "Hi Orna and Matthew, Thanks for the opportunity to get your help and advice. My question is: I've done all my work and I have started dating someone totally different and very special. This means I have changed. But how do I keep from going back to my old ways and make sure this relationship lasts? Thanks!" --- Dear Susana, How exciting! We love to hear when someone in our community has broken old patterns and created a new kind of
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Is This a Dealbreaker?

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This week's question comes from Tamlyn "Hello Orna and Matthew, I never would have thought I would be writing for advice on this issue because I've always perceived complaints about a lover with poor personal hygiene to be easily resolvable. I recently met a man whose heart and worldview match my own. I care about him and see him as someone I could build a future with. The problem is that his teeth are in a really bad condition and he often looks greasy and uncared for. I find this
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How do I not mess it up?

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This week's question comes from Sylvia: Hello Orna and Matthew, I would like to know about a man I'm interested in. I met a man online and we seemed to hit it off. We've been chatting online and I finally wrote an email to him but he hasn't answered me yet. He told me he wanted to meet and then I haven't heard from him. I really like him and I don't want to mess this up. What do I do!?! Thank you. --- Dear Sylvia, Thanks for reaching out to us. First off, know that you can't
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Can We Escape Past Trauma?

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This week's question comes from Lisa: Dear Orna and Matthew, I've enjoyed your work for a while now and have a question. I’ve been on the self-growth and healing path for most of my lifetime and specifically working on relationship stuff for the past 5 years. After healing through my divorce in 2012 and a toxic relationship later. I believe I've met someone really truly sent for me. We've been seeing each other about 6 months and it is by far and away the healthiest relationship I've
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