This week's question comes from Anita:
“Hi Orna and Matthew,
Why do men have blind spots for a woman when they’re in love, but otherwise want a perfect woman? I met a great man and for the first few months everything was great. He was so romantic and always gave me compliments on my appearance. He seemed to love and accept me.
But then we moved in together and everything changed. He is so critical of how I do everything. I don’t do the dishes correctly. I don’t dress nice enough for him.
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Is Chivalry Dead And Other Questions Women Ask As They Grow Frustrated In Their Search For Love
Is Chivalry Dead & Other Questions Women Ask As They Grow Frustrated In Their Search For Love
So many women we speak with are confused by the way the men they meet are behaving. Men don’t call you up and ask you out for a date; they text the day of to see if you are available to hang out. Men act interested, only to disappear into thin air. Men press for sex but go M.I.A. when you mention the word commitment. It’s enough to make you ask, “Is chivalry dead?”
These same women also desire
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5 Things To Keep In Mind While Texting With A Guy
This week's question comes from Katy:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
I love the advice you give out on your blog and in your webinars. I’m wondering what you think about texting… is it good or bad? Is it bad for me to text a guy I like?
How can I text with a guy so that it moves the relationship forward and doesn’t turn him off?
I feel great when I see this one guy, but in between dates I feel awkward texting with him.
Do you have any advice for me?
Thank you!"
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I Like Him But…?
This week's question comes from Debbi:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
It’s been about 2 years since my ex and I split and I took some time to heal and look within before I started dating. Now that I’ve put myself out there I’m going on quite a few dates with different men.
There’s one guy in particular that I like, except he talks a lot. I can get around that, but he also interrupts me when I’m speaking. It seems I can’t even finish 2 sentences without him interrupting me. I don’t even get to
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Self-Care Is NOT Always Sexy…
As wildfires rage around California we are grateful that many in our Love On Purpose Community have reached out to ask if we are okay. Yes, we are safe and sound thank goodness, however many of our friends are displaced from their homes and several have lost theirs. It’s tragic.
We have been offering support in many ways and we wanted to let you know two things:
We are safe.
Self-care is not optional.
Here we are with N95 masks as the air quality all around Los Angeles is very poor
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Why Do We Keep Fighting Even Though We Love Each Other?
This week's question comes from Makena:
"Dear Orna and Matthew,
I’ve been dating a great guy for the last year. Recently we moved in together and it has created a lot of friction between us. I love him and he loves me, but we fight all the time. I don't want to break up.
What should I do?"
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Hi Makena,
Fighting with someone you love can be one of the most heartbreaking situations. Our love goes out to the two of you.
We want you to know that fighting is not only common in
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