Creating Love on Purpose

Where Spiritual, Successful, Single Women Bring In Their Beloved™

WHERE SPIRITUAL, SUCCESSFUL, SINGLE WOMEN BRING IN THEIR BELOVED™

Overcome Self Sabotage

Am I Destined To Be Alone?

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This week's question comes from Maggie: "Hello Orna and Matthew,  I believe I am destined to be alone. I am alone in this world and I am going to be that way for the rest of my life. I have been told by some very good psychics that I made a life contract that is solid, and I am not to have a love partner this lifetime. The only glimmer of hope and the reason for this email is that a few of the psychics said there is someone waiting for me. If that is true, then I want to meet him. Over the years I have tried to change my contract as some psychics have said it was possible. I meditate and believe in a higher power and the power of our inner beings to guide us. Up
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If A Soulmate Is Your Goal, You Need To Know Your Love Imprint & How It’s Affecting You

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You’ve likely heard the saying, “Men marry their mother, and girls marry their father.” This is just too simplistic when taking into account how complex human beings are. The reality is that both parents and your entire family of origin play a role in Your Love Imprint ® and how you are hard-wired for love. Whether you know your biological parents or not, whether you were raised by one parent or both, we all learn about intimate relationship in our family of origin. So if you want to spend the rest of your life with your soulmate, you’re not looking to date more. Your desire is to spend your life with that one special person who really gets you and loves you warts
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Self-Care Is NOT Always Sexy…

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With news of the Coronavirus spreading around the world, self-quarantines and social distancing becoming the norm for the next several weeks now is a great time to dedicate time to self-care and to keeping your heart open. Fear can spread faster than any virus. Take these steps to nurture self-love and self-care and you’ll find it is easier to access love and faith when everything around you seems to be falling apart. To emotionally survive times of fear and chaos, think of yourself as a spiritual warrior bringing love to the world around you (even if you are home alone). Take commonsense actions to protect yourself, your health, and keep a positive attitude. Place
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How Can A Negative Attitude Block Me From Finding True Love?

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This week's question comes from Mathilda: "Dear Orna and Matthew, I’ve got such a negative attitude about love and relationships these days. I can’t seem to believe that love is in the cards for me and then when I go online I just see a bunch of fake profiles or guys I would never date. I’m sure that people are constantly being scammed on dating sites. Is there any hope for someone like me? I can’t seem to get over my negative attitude." --- Dear Mathilda, Thank you for reaching out to us, it’s clear that you are looking for some guidance that will help you feel better. To answer your question, yes it will be more difficult to create lasting love when you
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Feeling Frustrated With Being Single? Here Are 5 Tips To Shift Your Thoughts And Your Mood

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This week's question comes from Vivian: "Hi Orna and Matthew, I’m feeling so frustrated with being single and super melancholy these days. I love my life, I love my independence, I have great friends and family… what I don’t have is my Beloved. As I look around it seems everyone is partnered up. My friends and co-workers are all with their special someone. This time last year I vowed I would find that special guy this year and now I find myself coming to grips that is not very likely as I start another year in my life. What to do when I’m feeling blue? I’d love to get back into the groove in my life. I sure hope you pick my question to answer because I’m
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Attracted to Emotionally Unavailable Men?

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This week's question comes from Laura: “Hi Orna and Matthew, I am so glad I found you – you give the best dating advice. Its no doubt the universe pointed me in your direction just as I really need you! I have been addicted to emotionally unavailable men for 20 years and in the past few years, have pulled myself away – like an alcoholic coming off liquor. But, the feelings are still there – like the alcoholic smelling alcohol and being consumed by the longing for it! My current situation involves a male friend, with whom I’ve got close to (as friends) quickly over the last few months. He’s in a difficult emotional situation himself and in a relationship that he
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