As wildfires rage around California we are grateful that many in our Love On Purpose Community have reached out to ask if we are okay. Yes, we are safe and sound thank goodness, however many of our friends are displaced from their homes and several have lost theirs. It’s tragic.
We have been offering support in many ways and we wanted to let you know two things:
We are safe.
Self-care is not optional.
Here we are with N95 masks as the air quality all around Los Angeles is very poor
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Overcome Self Sabotage
Truth About Love Blocks
This week's question comes from Rebecca:
"Hey Orna and Matthew,
I just love you two! You’re always sharing the best of the best through your own experience and with your clients. I find it refreshing and truly awesome.
I hear from all over the place about “love blocks.” I’ve heard them called road blocks, subconscious blocks, blocks you’re not aware of, blocks to love, etc.
It appears there are all kinds of solutions to these blocks from having conversations with your parents (if
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Addicted to drama?
This week's question comes from Marybeth:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
I have been reading your weekly love notes for years. There so much great information you two share. I love getting both a male and female perspective. Today I’m reaching out because despite the fact that I’ve done a lot of personal growth work on myself I can’t seem to settle in with a nice guy.
Everything starts off great, there’s chemistry, and I enjoy the getting to know each other part of the relationship, but then
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Pushing away good men?
This week's question comes from Tracy:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
I really love reading your newsletter. It gives me so much hope that I can figure out my crazy love life.
I’ve done a lot of work to identify my patterns and I hope you can help me break them. I feel like I push away good men because deep inside I don’t really love myself. Also, I stay too long with nice men who just aren’t right for me.
How do I figure out how to love myself more/enough such that I don’t continue to be
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Does Love Equal Sacrifice?
This week's question comes from Ramada:
"Hi Orna and Matthew, I have a really wrong concept of love. I keep thinking that it means to sacrifice oneself and one's own interests and giving in to another person just to be nice. It is just very subconscious but I can feel that is just what I believe, so I have discovered that if I just change that word and stop using it at all, it becomes easier to me to know what I am feeling. I decided to change love for FUN. Because fun is always good and
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Afraid of Losing Yourself?
This week's question comes from Vicki:
Hi Orna and Matthew,
I’ve been delving into so much of what you two share and I’m realizing so much about myself. The truth is; I'm still terrified of losing myself in a relationship. How do I insure that I won’t go back to that old behavior again?
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Dear Vicki,
Thank you for letting us know our messages and teachings are supporting you to make positive changes. That really means so much to us.
Here's another truth: You will continue to
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