This week's question comes from Nina:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
I’m having something weird happen lately that has me concerned about what to do. I broke up with a man I was dating over a year ago. He was verbally abusive and definitely a narcissist. When I first met him though, I was really attracted to him. It wasn’t until later when I saw who he really was that I got out.
I’m currently dating a really great guy. In fact, we’re talking about moving in together. He is the opposite of my ex
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Blocks to Love
5 Steps to Heal From Betrayal
End Of Year – Put The Past Behind You
How many of you have loved and lost?
How many have had a dream, took action, and at some point thought you were getting somewhere only to have the rug pulled out from under you?
How many of you think that YOU had something to do with it going south?
Do you know the answer to the question, “Why bad things happen to good people?”
Here it is: To Make Them BETTER!
Just because something awful happened to you does not mean that you deserved it,
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Truth About Love Blocks
This week's question comes from Rebecca:
"Hey Orna and Matthew,
I just love you two! You’re always sharing the best of the best through your own experience and with your clients. I find it refreshing and truly awesome.
I hear from all over the place about “love blocks.” I’ve heard them called road blocks, subconscious blocks, blocks you’re not aware of, blocks to love, etc.
It appears there are all kinds of solutions to these blocks from having conversations with your parents (if
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Does Resiliency Block You From Love?
This week's question comes from Mary:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
I’ve been sitting on this question for you two for a while now because I’m not sure how to ask it or if you’d understand me. I know I’m a smart, sophisticated, and sensual woman and to put it bluntly, I’m exhausted.
I am tired of doing everything. I am the responsible one. I get shit done.
I’ve overcome a lot of adversity in my life. I pride myself on being resilient.
I’m the one everyone comes to when they need help. I’m
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Addicted to drama?
This week's question comes from Marybeth:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
I have been reading your weekly love notes for years. There so much great information you two share. I love getting both a male and female perspective. Today I’m reaching out because despite the fact that I’ve done a lot of personal growth work on myself I can’t seem to settle in with a nice guy.
Everything starts off great, there’s chemistry, and I enjoy the getting to know each other part of the relationship, but then
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Can I stay single and be happy?
This week's question comes from Iris:
“Hi Orna and Matthew,
I know that you two are soulmate coaches and that you probably don’t agree with me but I have to ask anyway. Can’t I just stay single and be happy with my life?
I’m so tired of yearning for a man to fix my life. I’m so tired of all the angst and drama of a relationship. None of my relationships have ever worked out and quite frankly I’m sick of dating.
I want to be happy single! I want to be happy without the worry that
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