This week's question comes from Becky:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
I’m writing to you because I think I know what my problem is. I’ve been cheated on by almost every boyfriend, and four years ago that’s exactly what happened with my now ex-husband. Do all men cheat? Why can’t I just finally meet a man who is faithful?
I’ve done a lot of healing, but I still think every guy will cheat. How do I overcome what must be my #1 block to love?
You two have to be the most adorable couple! You give me
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Blocks to Love
Are You Afraid To Date Again? 7 Strategies For Getting Back Out There
This week's question comes from Tami:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
I have not been in a real relationship in over 20 years and I’m really afraid to date again.
My personality takes a while to unfold with new people (I'm an introvert), so in today's speed dating kind of world, I feel quite lost and afraid to get out there.
I've had a few coffee dates that don't go anywhere and based on my past history, I don't really trust myself to meet anyone decent anyway. How do I get the confidence to
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Attracted to Emotionally Unavailable Men?
This week's question comes from Laura:
“Hi Orna and Matthew,
I am so glad I found you – you give the best dating advice. Its no doubt the universe pointed me in your direction just as I really need you!
I have been addicted to emotionally unavailable men for 20 years and in the past few years, have pulled myself away – like an alcoholic coming off liquor. But, the feelings are still there – like the alcoholic smelling alcohol and being consumed by the longing for it! My current situation
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5 Steps You Need To Take Now To Heal A Broken Heart
You’re not thinking about how to heal a broken heart when you first discover that your relationship has ended for good. You’re too busy reeling from the discovery that your happily ever after isn’t, and probably wishing you could just curl up and make all the pain go away.
A broken heart can pull the rug out from under you and have you on your knees rethinking every step you’ve made in the dance of relationship.
Going on a journey of healing after a heartbreak can feel daunting at first,
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5 Things To Remember When You Get Tired Of Being Single
When you get tired of being single it’s important to keep up the hope that you’ll connect with your soulmate. However, hope is not a plan – you need more than just hope to take you all the way to your goal of long-lasting love.
Sitting around and waiting for things to be different is not a strategy. Waiting for someone to discover how amazing you are won’t just magically happen. Contrary to popular colloquialisms love won’t just happen when you least expect it.
Here are 5 things to remember
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5 Reasons Why Soulmate Relationships Are Difficult
This week's question comes from Tamar:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
I hope you can help me figure out why soulmate relationships are difficult. It seems that whenever I have a great connection with a man I am easily triggered and I overthink everything.
Being in my 40s I’ve been around the block, I know relationships take work. I just wonder why the deeper the connection the more I seem off-kilter. Perhaps I should be with a completely different kind of guy than I think…?
Curious about your
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