This week's question comes from Irene:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
I’ve been following ‘Love On Purpose’ for 6yrs now. I’ve learned so much.
I want to know how to bounce back from my divorce. I was married for 17 years and divorced my husband 4 years ago. He is an addict and broke my heart for the last time. I finally got sick of his issues and kicked him out. I’ve been focused on raising my kids and now they’re in college and getting ready for college.
I really haven’t dated much. I did
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Dating After Divorce
How To Date For Your Soulmate
This week's question comes from Nora:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
I am reaching out, as I’m a hot 40-something year old woman who has a lot to give. I know I’m a catch and yet all the men I go out with don’t really pursue me. In the beginning it seems as if they are really into me, but it peters out quickly and I’m left wondering what is going on.
This recently happened over the holidays. I was hoping to spend NYE with someone special (even if he’s not the one long-term). I ended up alone and
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5 Steps to Heal From Betrayal
End Of Year – Put The Past Behind You
How many of you have loved and lost?
How many have had a dream, took action, and at some point thought you were getting somewhere only to have the rug pulled out from under you?
How many of you think that YOU had something to do with it going south?
Do you know the answer to the question, “Why bad things happen to good people?”
Here it is: To Make Them BETTER!
Just because something awful happened to you does not mean that you deserved it,
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How To Know If He’s The One
This week's question comes from Jamie:
"Hi O&M,
I’ve been reading your emails for nearly 7 years. I love watching your webinars, and seeing your straight up approach to answering questions. Now here is mine:
How do I know if he’s the one?
I’ve been through your Soulmate Shortcut course nearly 4 years ago and by following everything you laid out step-by-step I ended up in a great relationship with a fabulous guy.
After being divorced, with work and taking care of my kids, I
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How long do I wait for him?
This week's question comes from Suzie:
"Dear Orna and Matthew,
My boyfriend and I have been together for a couple of years and I love him and yet I don’t know if it is ever going to work out. He is still dealing with his ex and working through custody issues with their 7 yr. old son.
They spend a lot of time together (at events for his kid’s school, at parties and gatherings with their friends from their marriage) sometimes it’s like they aren’t even divorced. I feel excluded from his
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Addicted to drama?
This week's question comes from Marybeth:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
I have been reading your weekly love notes for years. There so much great information you two share. I love getting both a male and female perspective. Today I’m reaching out because despite the fact that I’ve done a lot of personal growth work on myself I can’t seem to settle in with a nice guy.
Everything starts off great, there’s chemistry, and I enjoy the getting to know each other part of the relationship, but then
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