"How Do I Get Him to Change?"
This week's question comes from Suzanne
"Dear Orna and Matthew,
I am a faithful reader of all your information you send out and follow all your advice. I have read The Soulmate Shortcut™ several times. So here is my situation in a nutshell.
I am 51 years old divorced 8 years was married for 27. I have had a best male friend my whole life since we were 15 years old. We have been each other’s rock and constant through out life. Dated in high school, college,
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Dating After Divorce
Why did I push a nice guy away?
This week's question comes from Denise:
"I was dating a man two months ago that broke up with me because I just wasn't spending enough time with him. After the first date he emailed me and told me he stayed awake all night thinking of me and he really thought I was the one. He gave me a dozen red roses on our next date, called me beautiful, sweetie, and baby. He also gave me Xmas gifts after knowing me three weeks and wanted me to spend the weekend with his older children at the beach for New
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How do I learn to trust again?
This week's question comes from Cami:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
My question is how do you learn to trust again? My heart has been closed to trusting others because I’ve been through so much pain. I’ve shut down and I know I don’t want to be this way, but I find it so difficult to open up and trust. It always feels unsafe. How do I get over the fear of getting hurt if I have no support system to hold my hand while I heal myself?"
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Dear Cami,
We feel for you. It can be difficult to
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Want a Deep Soul Connection?
This week's question comes from Michele:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
My name is Michele; I have been divorced for 6 years. In a nutshell my marriage ended because my husband was unfaithful. I raised my 2 children on my own. I must admit I did a fine job! They are 2 amazing young adults!
Once I was divorced, I put myself out there. I met many great guys. Quite a few who were truly ready to commit. Some even looking for marriage. In the end, I usually ended the relationships. Nothing I
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Relationship ready men?
This week's question comes from Loretta:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
I’m a very active, fit, professional 49 year old woman. I seem to be attracted to younger men and them to me (I look younger than I am). The problem is they only want sex, and are not looking for a relationship. How can I meet someone I’m attracted to that would be interested in having a long-term relationship?
My longest relationship was for 13 years. He was the love of my life and my children’s father but he passed away
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Where Are the Spiritual Men?
This week's question comes from Sarah:
Dear Orna and Matthew,
I've done a lot of personal growth and think it is an important part of who I am in the world. And yet most of the guys I meet (including my ex-husband) are NOT interested in growing and changing. I want to share my life with someone who wants to grow with me! Do guys like that even exist?
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Dear Sarah,
Yes, there are plenty of men who are interested in personal growth. One thing you want to be sure of is that
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