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Dating After Divorce

Why can’t I make love last?

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This week's question comes from Leslie: "Hi Orna and Matthew, I’m lucky in that I have no trouble getting dates or even finding men who want to be in a relationship with me. In fact, one of my friends brags that I could get just about any man to propose to me. BUT… I can’t ever seem to make it last. I’ve been divorced for 10 years, have been proposed to by at least 7 men, and I am constantly dating. I’m reaching out to you two because I never seem to find the “right” man. Either they
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The Problem Is NOT Women Or Men

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This week's questions comes from HollyAnn: "Hello Orna and Matthew, Please help! I’ve been dating for the last 2 years since my divorce and I feel so frustrated with the whole experience. I always seem to meet men who I date for a couple of months then they unexpectedly break up with me. They seemed to be interested then they disappear. I am never able to form a bond with them. They don’t give it a chance. Seriously, do MEN ever want anything even close to what women desire? And
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Sacrificing your happiness for someone else’s comfort?

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This week's question comes from Rheena: "Hi Orna and Matthew, I hope you can help me. I am 58, relatively attractive, healthy, really interesting and smart – everyone in my family are nice people, my children, my siblings, my parents, all of us really nice people. I've been divorced 5 years and I recently ran into my ex at a close friend’s daughter’s wedding (we were her godparents when we were together so we were both invited to the wedding). I knew he had remarried, but I had never
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How Do I Get Him to Change?

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"How Do I Get Him to Change?" This week's question comes from Suzanne "Dear Orna and Matthew, I am a faithful reader of all your information you send out and follow all your advice. I have read The Soulmate Shortcut™ several times. So here is my situation in a nutshell. I am 51 years old divorced 8 years was married for 27. I have had a best male friend my whole life since we were 15 years old. We have been each other’s rock and constant through out life. Dated in high school, college,
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Why did I push a nice guy away?

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This week's question comes from Denise: "I was dating a man two months ago that broke up with me because I just wasn't spending enough time with him. After the first date he emailed me and told me he stayed awake all night thinking of me and he really thought I was the one. He gave me a dozen red roses on our next date, called me beautiful, sweetie, and baby. He also gave me Xmas gifts after knowing me three weeks and wanted me to spend the weekend with his older children at the beach for New
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How do I learn to trust again?

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This week's question comes from Cami: "Hi Orna and Matthew, My question is how do you learn to trust again? My heart has been closed to trusting others because I’ve been through so much pain. I’ve shut down and I know I don’t want to be this way, but I find it so difficult to open up and trust. It always feels unsafe. How do I get over the fear of getting hurt if I have no support system to hold my hand while I heal myself?" --- Dear Cami, We feel for you. It can be difficult to
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