This week's question comes from Nicole:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
I have a question for your blog. I think you have good advice and I want to hear what you think about finding a quality man to date. It’s also nice to hear from a couple that is truly in love.
I’ve done a ton of personal growth and spiritual work and the more I evolve and grow the more it seems finding a quality man just keeps getting harder and harder. I don’t want to sound critical but the men I meet just don’t match up with
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Dating After Divorce
Can Love Heal A Broken Heart? The Truth About Rebound Relationships
When a relationship ends you may find yourself rushing to meet someone new wondering, “Can love heal a broken heart?”
Experiencing heartbreak is one of the most painful experiences in life. A relationship starts with so much hope and when it ends, it can feel like something inside of you has died.
You begin to question everything you thought you knew about love. You really connected with this person at the beginning, and now it’s over when you thought it would last. Can you really trust
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Could My Unresolved Emotional Baggage Be Holding Me Back From Finding True Love?
This week's question comes from Madeline:
"Dear O&M,
My goodness you two are the best! I’ve been following you for years and I admit I’ve learned so much about myself and my current state by how I respond to whatever you put out in the world.
Because you encourage people to be authentic I’m going to give it to you straight:
On my good days I revel in your advice and admire your relationship.
On my bad days I notice how angry I get at the two of you and I want to argue with you
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How To Heal From Betrayal: 5 Steps To Move Through Betrayal To Become Better Faster & Stronger
Have you ever been so hurt that you thought you didn’t know how you would heal from betrayal?
We recently spoke with a woman who discovered her fiancé was cheating on her while standing in line to get into a bar. He walked out of the bar holding another woman’s hand and she was devastated.
She kept saying over and over again that she didn’t think she could ever trust someone again.
Can you relate?
How many times have you have loved and lost?
How many times have you had a dream,
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8 Signs You’re Tired Of Being Single
How do you know when you are finally ready to make the leap and change your dating strategies? You first must recognize the signs you’re tired of being single.
Do you feel conflicted with jealousy and joy when your friends get engaged?
Are you stuck in the dating desert and just want to meet your guy so you can get on with the rest of your life as you planned?
Do you fear being left behind by your group of friends who are all getting married and having babies?
These feelings are
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Crushed When It Doesn’t Work Out? How Overcoming Rejection Can Teach You How To Find Lasting Love
This week's question comes from Mollie:
"I am heartbroken and I really hope you can help me with overcoming rejection. I’ve been struggling for years with dating after my divorce and I was about to give up ever finding love again when I met a man online that I thought was “The One.”
I mean this like nothing before. We had so much in common, felt so good together, and we laughed and talked a lot before meeting via text, and on the phone. When we finally met in person it was clear there was
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