This week's question comes from Maggie:
"Hello Orna and Matthew,
I believe I am destined to be alone.
I am alone in this world and I am going to be that way for the rest of my life. I have been told by some very good psychics that I made a life contract that is solid, and I am not to have a love partner this lifetime. The only glimmer of hope and the reason for this email is that a few of the psychics said there is someone waiting for me. If that is true, then I want to meet him.
Over the years I have tried to change my contract as some psychics have said it was possible. I meditate and believe in a higher power and the power of our inner beings to guide us. Up until now I haven't
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Attract Your Soulmate
How To Love A Man So He Stays With You Forever
If you want to know how to love a man so that he loves and adores you, and never wants to leave, you’ll want to take time to discover what a man really needs from a relationship.
We’re not here to tell you how to love a man by being more feminine or to smile and laugh more. You’re a smart, successful woman. You don’t want to be condescended to, and the truth is men and women are different and have different needs in relationship.
Acting like your man’s brain is the same as yours isn’t going to get you the lasting love you desire. Just because men and women are equal and deserve respect doesn’t mean that they are the same.
Men and women are different. Understanding those differences
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Meeting Long Distance For The First Time? 10 Tips To Meet Someone For The First Time
This week's question comes from Nancy:
“Hello Orna and Matthew,
Thank you for the opportunity to ask for help in my search for love. I really value your advice. I am going to meet someone for the first time and I need help.
Hopefully I have found the man of my dreams through a dating app. I want to meet him at a special place (this is a long distance meeting). I’ve never gone to them first and I don’t usually pursue, but I am feeling like I really want to this time. Is this ok?
I’m not worried about my safety (even though this will be our first meeting). I have two weeks to get my self-esteem together and do the right thing.
I’m so fearful about screwing this
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“He Keeps Cancelling Our Dates.” What To Do When He Cancels Last Minute.
This week's question comes from Julie:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
How should you respond to a man that cancels last minute? He first did this months ago and it took me a while to agree to another date. I have now agreed and today, the day of the date, he has another reason. I know that you must set the rules early for how you will allow to be treated and I won’t stand for this. He keeps cancelling our dates. My time is valuable, and I deserve respect. So, how should I respond to him in a manner that is not emotional but will let him know this? He has asked if we can reschedule for Sat, but I won’t agree to that.
Thank you"
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Dear Julie,
We know it can be frustrating when you set
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How To Know If A Man Truly Loves You So You Stop Wasting Time On The Wrong Men
How much time have you spent on a man who wasn’t truly interested in a long-term relationship? Did you find yourself making excuses for his behavior? Or compromising and giving up on what you really want as an attempt to make things work out? Are you wondering how to know if a man loves you and is an ideal match for you so you don’t make the same mistakes again?
Putting more time into a mismatched relationship isn’t suddenly going to make things all better. Stop wasting your time with men who are not a match for you, who aren’t worthy of your love.
You deserve to have soul-satisfying, long-lasting love with a man who cherishes you and treats you with respect. Would you be able to
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Why Is Unrequited Love So Hard To Get Over?
This week's question comes from Jen:
"Dear Orna and Matthew,
I have a question about unrequited love. You see, I met my soulmate a couple of years ago. I knew it the moment I met him. It was like my soul had opened up and I finally knew what love could be.
The problem is he didn’t feel the same way. I don’t really understand how that could be possible. He told me that he had never felt so comfortable with anyone before. Our connection was so strong.
He met someone else and I heard through a friend that he is engaged. I feel devastated. It’s like my heart is being crushed. How could I meet my soulmate and he not feel the same way as me?
I don’t know why this is so hard for me to
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