This week's question comes from Angela:
Hi Orna Matthew,
I love the Love Note each week. They are beautiful notes which teach us how to live in everyday life. I appreciate it.
I like the concept of feminine and masculine energy. Society has mixed these up. I can feel that some men have the initiative energy and some men are weak in having the driving force.
I have some met some men on the internet recently. I wonder how I can balance this feminine energy and welcoming energy in terms
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Lasting Love
Like Minded Men?
This week's question comes from Linda
"Dear Orna and Matthew,
I am an attractive, fit 64 female and want a life companion and friend/lover. Have not dated in years, how do I connect with like-minded men?"
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Dear Linda,
Thank you for your direct question. We get asked this question a lot, and not to sound off putting, but you meet "like-minded men" at all the same places that you meet any other kind of man: Out in the world. There is not some special Starbucks or supermarket that
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Can We Escape Past Trauma?
This week's question comes from Lisa:
Dear Orna and Matthew,
I've enjoyed your work for a while now and have a question.
I’ve been on the self-growth and healing path for most of my lifetime and specifically working on relationship stuff for the past 5 years.
After healing through my divorce in 2012 and a toxic relationship later. I believe I've met someone really truly sent for me. We've been seeing each other about 6 months and it is by far and away the healthiest relationship I've
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Isn’t accidental love more romantic?
This week's question comes from Patricia:
Hi Orna and Matthew,
Isn’t it more romantic when you meet someone out of the blue and sparks fly? The idea of doing all this work to find my soulmate sounds exhausting!
I would love to know what you have against romance.
Do you really believe that there’s any difference between falling in love and loving someone? If so, what is it?
Seriously confused.
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Hello Patricia,
Thanks for jumping in and giving us a challenge! We’ve heard
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Can I find lasting love at my age?
This week's question comes from Anonymous:
Hi Orna and Matthew,
First of all a big thank you for what you're doing! I have been following you for some time and you give the best straight-forward advice.
I have a few questions I've been wondering about.
First: I've been doing this work on my own about a year and have grown tremendously and I'm so glad I took this path. However I met somebody (lets say: "Z") last fall but found out that "Z" was taken (I then discovered that my attraction
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Meant to Be?
This week's question comes from Tarryn:
Dear Orna and Mathew.
I have a question if you don't mind. All these techniques, internal work, etc. are great and I truly follow it and try to practice this work. However if you're with the wrong partner (for instance if I'm with a boyfriend who isn't my match/soulmate) then I could do all the internal work in the world and we still wouldn't be able to have that soulmate/relationship we want correct?
It just frustrates me that this work is
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