This week's question comes from Irene:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
I’ve been following ‘Love On Purpose’ for 6yrs now. I’ve learned so much.
I want to know how to bounce back from my divorce. I was married for 17 years and divorced my husband 4 years ago. He is an addict and broke my heart for the last time. I finally got sick of his issues and kicked him out. I’ve been focused on raising my kids and now they’re in college and getting ready for college.
I really haven’t dated much. I did
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Do I Have A Twin Flame?
This week's question comes from Madison:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
I’ve been reading and watching everything you two do for years now. I love how you interact with one another. It’s clear there is so much love there. I printed out a photo of you two from your website years ago where you’re kissing in front of a merry-go-round and I’ve had it on my vision board with the words, “Twin Flame” as a headline at the top of it.
You give the best dating advice for women that I’ve found anywhere. So
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Are You Depressed About Being Single For So Long?
Follow these steps to end being perpetually single on Valentine’s Day:
Another Valentine’s Day and another year you’re feeling depressed about being single for so long that you’re thinking about joining a convent. You could celebrate Single’s Awareness Day. Or you could get together with friends and complain about holidays created by greeting card companies and drown your sorrows in another cosmo.
But, Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to be something to hate or something to avoid. Instead you
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How do I get a man to pursue me?
This week's question comes from Jame:
"Dear Orna and Matthew,
I am a weekly reader of your Love Notes and have found much value in your advice. I have a learned a lot.
It doesn’t appear to me that you’ve actually answered Nora’s question (How To Date For Your Soulmate). Nora may be doing all that you outlined in your response and yet her dates aren’t pursuing her for further dates. I find this is common for many women in her situation.
What is your advice when we’re doing all that
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How To Date For Your Soulmate
This week's question comes from Nora:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
I am reaching out, as I’m a hot 40-something year old woman who has a lot to give. I know I’m a catch and yet all the men I go out with don’t really pursue me. In the beginning it seems as if they are really into me, but it peters out quickly and I’m left wondering what is going on.
This recently happened over the holidays. I was hoping to spend NYE with someone special (even if he’s not the one long-term). I ended up alone and
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5 Things To Keep In Mind While Texting With A Guy
This week's question comes from Katy:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
I love the advice you give out on your blog and in your webinars. I’m wondering what you think about texting… is it good or bad? Is it bad for me to text a guy I like?
How can I text with a guy so that it moves the relationship forward and doesn’t turn him off?
I feel great when I see this one guy, but in between dates I feel awkward texting with him.
Do you have any advice for me?
Thank you!"
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