This week's question comes from Patricia:
"Dear Orna and Matthew,
Do you think a woman of my age, which is 57, can find true love? I am not one to go on the internet to find it.
Patricia"
Dear Patricia,
We picked your question this week because in 2 short sentences you described exactly why you will find it difficult to create the love you want. Let’s break it down so everyone can understand.
In the first sentence you mention your age – as if love discriminates. Sure it can seem that love comes easier to the young. More of them are single. Most of them aren’t damaged from past bad relationships. More of them are willing to “hook up” without conditions
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Get Ready for Love
Lonely man looking for a date…
This week's question comes from Victor:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
I have a question.
I'm a 50 year-old male and becoming more and withdrawn moving further and further away from dating. Only last week, I had set up a date only to cancel. It's been years since I've been in a relationship with a woman.
At the rate I'm going, I'm clearly not going to get to married and yet there is certainly a side of me that wants to connect, although I'm moving in the complete opposite direction. I'm just so not sure that I'm cut out for marriage, which would be a huge tragedy.
I am becoming more and more withdrawn from family as well. It's all not good.
I guess I'm wondering
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