This week's question comes from Lacie:
"Dear Orna and Matthew,
When someone asks, “Are we compatible?” is it a sign the relationship is going someplace or headed for a breakup?
I’m dating this guy and I don’t know how I feel about him. He’s really nice and we get along well, but I’m not feeling the excitement that I want to feel. He seems obsessed with our compatibility. He keeps going on about how much alike we are.
I don’t know what to think. How do I know if this relationship is going someplace or if we are headed for a breakup?
I look forward to your advice."
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Dear Lacie,
Thanks for reaching out to us. We understand that you are confused about
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“Hi Orna and Matthew,
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I’m so confused.
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