This week's question comes from Monika:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
My heart is broken. I’m crushed… once again it did not work out. I felt like I gave him everything. I moved to his state after the two of us going back and forth for a couple years.
Then I felt like I had given up too much and felt angry and resentful that I changed my entire life to only be let down. Miraculously, we stayed together… I moved back to my “home.” The long story short… it’s over now. He told me that he could never give me what I really want.
After all these years together I continually assured him that all I wanted was HIM! So I felt like not enough. Now more than ever I wonder if I will
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How To Know If He’s Falling For You Or If It’s Just Wishful Thinking On Your Part
We get a lot of questions about how to tell if the man you’re currently dating is falling for you. The question usually includes elaborate details about a particular behavior he has, asking us “What does it really mean?” It seems a lot of women are confused about what a man’s behavior really means and are looking for a guide to understand this mysterious gender.
Many men will state upfront that they are not interested in getting married again or that they don’t really want anything serious and yet they will continue to ask you out on a date. Contradictions like this can drive you crazy.
To begin with, we want to point out that most men’s behavior is pretty easy to
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Why Is Being In Your Integrity One Of The Quickest Ways To Find A True Soul Partner?
Are you struggling to find your true soul partner? It’s likely you’re unaware of why being in your integrity is the secret to unlocking the lasting love you are looking for, and how not being in your integrity is sabotaging your efforts.
What does being in your integrity in your intimate relationships really mean?
Let’s explore how being in your integrity leads you to show up authentically, keeping your heart karma clean, and ultimately attracting the type of partner you’ve been longing for.
Being in your integrity gives you the tools to build lasting trust with your partner. It gives you a solid foundation to cultivate deeper intimacy and connection than you knew was
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7 Ways To Heal A Broken Heart And Move On Energetically So You Stop Attracting The Same Kind Of Men
Break-ups can be devastating, especially when it happens with that guy that you really thought was The One. You find yourself searching Google for ways to heal a broken heart and move on. Reading every article you can get your hands on hoping that this horrible feeling will just go away.
Well stop your search. We’re here to help you not only move on from your broken heart but also to make sure you finally stop repeating your pattern of heartbreak with that guy that feels so right yet always seems to go so wrong.
What is it about certain guys that seem to have your number, and yet they always turn out to be the biggest disappointments?
The truth is we all have a pattern
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When A Man Falls In Love, How Does He Show It?
One of the most common questions women ask us is about a man in love. It seems that many women are unsure how a man feels about them. They ask us, “When a man falls in love, how does he show it?”
Do you find yourself looking for subtle clues or hidden signs of love and hoping that he is ready to step up and claim you?
Do you go exclusive with a man because he seems interested, only to find out that he wasn’t emotionally available for a relationship, and you constantly feel like he is on/off or hot/cold with you?
If you find yourself asking, “Where is this going?” it’s likely the guy you’re dating is not ready for a commitment, and no hints, conversations, or
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Why Is Forgiving Yourself For Past Mistakes A Key To Manifesting Love In The Future?
Forgiving yourself can be one of the most difficult steps you take on your journey to lasting love – it can also be one of the most worthwhile endeavors. This journey of self-discovery and growth will lead you to a more fulfilling life, happy and healthy relationships, and a love that will stand the test of time.
You may have heard us say, “You are the common denominator in all of your relationships.” This realization comes with a lot of power; the power to change your unhealthy patterns, to make new decisions, and to create new habits and behaviors (ones that serve you and create a life you love).
There is a dark side to this realization as well. If you are the
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