Are you connected to your feminine energy? Or are you so focused on getting things done in your life that dating and finding love are just another task on your to-do list?
Feminine energy somehow got a bad rap over the last few decades. So perhaps you’re unaware of how important it is to tap into your feminine energy before a first date or first meeting. As a heterosexual woman, one who wants to settle down in a romantic relationship with a man, tapping into your feminine energy before you go out on a date, and through the dating process, will speed up your ability to create the soulmate relationship you are looking for.
The truth is, feminine energy is NOT passive.
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Attract Your Soulmate
Is Conflict With Your Soulmate A Red Flag Or Do All Relationships Experience Power Struggles?
Red flags are something to pay attention to BEFORE committing to a life partner. And a soulmate is just that – someone you choose, who also chooses you, to make it through the tough times together and enjoy the good times of which there will be plenty.
It’s all too easy to imagine that with your soulmate you’ll eternally get along, with zero conflicts. Unfortunately, that is a fantasy because no matter who you choose to partner up with, at times there will be friction and discord.
Red flags are something to look out for through the dating process. Unfortunately, most people are Dating Backwards™ giving a stranger the benefit of the doubt, seeing chemistry as a sign
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When Someone Asks ‘Are We Compatible’ Is It A Sign The Relationship Is Going Someplace Or Headed For A Breakup?
This week's question comes from Lacie:
"Dear Orna and Matthew,
When someone asks, “Are we compatible?” is it a sign the relationship is going someplace or headed for a breakup?
I’m dating this guy and I don’t know how I feel about him. He’s really nice and we get along well, but I’m not feeling the excitement that I want to feel. He seems obsessed with our compatibility. He keeps going on about how much alike we are.
I don’t know what to think. How do I know if this relationship is going someplace or if we are headed for a breakup?
I look forward to your advice."
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Dear Lacie,
Thanks for reaching out to us. We understand that you are confused about
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Tired Of Being Alone? Here Are Best Tips To Get You Back In Action Again
If you’re feeling tired of being alone that can be a great motivator for making a change. But being tired of your current situation isn’t enough to actually create a new one. Most people get motivated when they are uncomfortable with their present circumstances.
Whether you desire to lose weight, to have financial security, or to finally create lasting love, feeling sick and tired of the way things are can be the impetus for making a shift. Unfortunately, your motivation will begin to falter and your results will suffer if you’re relying on your desire for change to keep you going.
You see, when you are motivated by discomfort you actually begin to lose motivation
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How To Tell If A Guy Likes You So You Stop Wasting Time On Unavailable Men
It can be so maddening dating an emotionally unavailable man. Investing time, energy, and effort into a relationship only to find out weeks or even months later that he is not actually ready for a long-term relationship. Would you like to know how to tell if a guy likes you so that you stop wasting your precious time?
Dating can be daunting and frustrating and many women just swear off dating rather than upgrade their dating skills. Spending hours screening dates by perusing social media and googling may lead to a future career as a private detective but will do little for your love life.
If you want to steer clear of emotionally unavailable men, instead of trying
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How Do I Get What I Want? 5 Ways To Get What You Want From Your Partner
This week's question comes from Lena:
“Hi Orna and Matthew,
How do I get what I want from my guy?
I’ve been in a relationship with a great guy for the last 8 months. He’s funny and nice and I know he is very loyal to me. We have so many things in common, including bigger life goals. I think I really love him and I want to spend the rest of my life with him.
There is one thing that really kind of holds me back from making a deeper commitment with him (not that he’s asking for it yet). I have a lot of small doubts that add up because there are things I wish he did differently. I love to give gifts to him, but I rarely get any in return. He doesn’t compliment me
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