If you want to know how to love a man so that he loves and adores you, and never wants to leave, you’ll want to take time to discover what a man really needs from a relationship.
We’re not here to tell you how to love a man by being more feminine or to smile and laugh more. You’re a smart, successful woman. You don’t want to be condescended to, and the truth is men and women are different and have different needs in relationship.
Acting like your man’s brain is the same as yours isn’t going to get you the lasting love you desire. Just because men and women are equal and deserve respect doesn’t mean that they are the same.
Men and women are different.
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Attract Your Soulmate
How To Know If A Man Truly Loves You So You Stop Wasting Time On The Wrong Men
How much time have you spent on a man who wasn’t truly interested in a long-term relationship? Did you find yourself making excuses for his behavior? Or compromising and giving up on what you really want as an attempt to make things work out? Are you wondering how to know if a man loves you and is an ideal match for you so you don’t make the same mistakes again?
Putting more time into a mismatched relationship isn’t suddenly going to make things all better. Stop wasting your time with men who are not a match for you, who aren’t worthy of your love.
You deserve to have soul-satisfying, long-lasting love with a man who cherishes you and treats you with respect. Would
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11 Relationship Goals For Grownups Ready For True Love
Now that you’re older and ready to approach love differently, do you know what your relationship goals are? Creating healthy, lasting love doesn’t just happen magically. It comes from learning new love and relationship skills.
Whether your relationship status is divorced, single, or complicated, you recognize that the way you’ve been approaching love and relationship hasn’t been working for you. The simple answer is that the people you’ve been in relationship with just aren’t ready for the kind of love you desire.
Or you could look deeper and see if you can discover how your strategies and beliefs have been contributing to your struggles.
The myth of accidental
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What Does Real Love Feel Like?
This week's question comes from Roma:
"Dear Orna and Matthew,
What does real love feel like? I don’t know if I’ve really been in love with someone. I just turned 33 and I want a family and I know I don’t want to settle for just anyone. My parents had a terrible relationship and I don’t want to repeat their mistakes.
I’m very cautious about getting into a committed relationship. I’ve dated quite a few guys but most of them didn’t really excite me or give me the feelings of love that other people talk about.
The couple of times I thought it was true love, it ended horribly. I guess I don’t trust myself to pick a good match.
I’m not sure I even know what love is
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How To Find Love When You’re Too Old To Play Games
Are you tired of playing games when it comes to love? Feel like you’re too old to put up with the emotional drama that you experienced in your youth? You just want to know how to find love and make it last.
The good news is that you can learn how to find love in a new way!
By making a few adjustments in your thinking and in taking new actions, you can transform your frustration into lasting love.
How To Find Love When You’re Too Old To Play Games
People play emotional games in their relationships because they aren’t emotionally aware or mature enough to take responsibility for their behavior. If you feel like you’ve done the work and are ready for something
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Will I Ever Find Love Again?
This week's question comes from Naomi:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
Will I ever find love again?
I hope you can help me. I’ve been a long time reader and really think you give great advice. I have been feeling a lot of despair lately with the state of the world. Dating really scares me and I’m not sure where to get started. I married young and he passed unexpectedly in an accident several years ago. I have been alone since and haven’t dated anyone seriously.
As a single mom, I often wonder if any man would ever be interested in me, as I have to put my children first.
What are your thoughts? Do you think that people get a second chance at love?"
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