This week's question comes from Monika:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
My heart is broken. I’m crushed… once again it did not work out. I felt like I gave him everything. I moved to his state after the two of us going back and forth for a couple years.
Then I felt like I had given up too much and felt angry and resentful that I changed my entire life to only be let down. Miraculously, we stayed together… I moved back to my “home.” The long story short… it’s over now. He told me that he could never give me what I really want.
After all these years together I continually assured him that all I wanted was HIM! So I felt like not enough. Now more than ever I wonder if I will
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Topic: Heal Your Heart
7 Ways To Heal A Broken Heart And Move On Energetically So You Stop Attracting The Same Kind Of Men
Break-ups can be devastating, especially when it happens with that guy that you really thought was The One. You find yourself searching Google for ways to heal a broken heart and move on. Reading every article you can get your hands on hoping that this horrible feeling will just go away.
Well stop your search. We’re here to help you not only move on from your broken heart but also to make sure you finally stop repeating your pattern of heartbreak with that guy that feels so right yet always seems to go so wrong.
What is it about certain guys that seem to have your number, and yet they always turn out to be the biggest disappointments?
The truth is we all have a pattern
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Why Is Forgiving Yourself For Past Mistakes A Key To Manifesting Love In The Future?
Forgiving yourself can be one of the most difficult steps you take on your journey to lasting love – it can also be one of the most worthwhile endeavors. This journey of self-discovery and growth will lead you to a more fulfilling life, happy and healthy relationships, and a love that will stand the test of time.
You may have heard us say, “You are the common denominator in all of your relationships.” This realization comes with a lot of power; the power to change your unhealthy patterns, to make new decisions, and to create new habits and behaviors (ones that serve you and create a life you love).
There is a dark side to this realization as well. If you are the
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Feeling Frustrated With Being Single? Here Are 5 Tips To Shift Your Thoughts And Your Mood
This week's question comes from Vivian:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
I’m feeling so frustrated with being single and super melancholy these days. I love my life, I love my independence, I have great friends and family… what I don’t have is my Beloved.
As I look around it seems everyone is partnered up. My friends and co-workers are all with their special someone. This time last year I vowed I would find that special guy this year and now I find myself coming to grips that is not very likely as I start another year in my life.
What to do when I’m feeling blue? I’d love to get back into the groove in my life.
I sure hope you pick my question to answer because I’m
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Tired Of Being Lonely And Alone For The Holidays?
This week's question comes from Lily
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
I am so tired of being lonely and alone and with the Holidays coming up I don’t know what to do.
This time of year is a really hard time for me. My husband filed for divorce just before Christmas 8 years ago and I can’t forgive him for ruining this time for me. He said he felt like I didn’t give him any space to be himself – I made more money than him and he was always resentful of that.
We didn’t have any children so I can’t make the holidays about them. We got married in our early 20’s and now it feels like time is running out for me. Lately, I find myself avoiding my family as much as possible. I’m
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If You’re Tired Of Being Lonely But Don’t Want Another Bad Relationship, Here’s What You Need To Do
There is nothing worse than feeling tired of being lonely and yet afraid you’ll make the same mistakes if you get into a relationship again. It feels like you are stuck between a rock and a hard place – part of you longing for love and another part afraid you’ll make the same mistakes again.
We call this situation being stuck in a double bind. Two parts inside of you want what appears to be opposing things and these two parts are at a standoff. It's like you are arm-wrestling yourself and each part is equally strong, so you never get anywhere – you’re just stuck.
If you stay stuck too long then you’ll end up unmotivated and ambivalent about ever creating love. Your
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