This week's question comes from Jessica:
"Dear Orna and Matthew,
I want your help leaving my emotional baggage behind! I’ve had lots of issues around relationships and I feel like I can’t help but bring that baggage into my current relationship.
I’m almost 50 and I’m not even sure I want to be married. My boyfriend and I really enjoy each other’s company there are a lot of great things in this relationship.
He’s never been engaged or married, and I’ve been engaged a couple of times in the past but never walked down the aisle. I know I have a lot of energy around marriage and weddings… most of it not so great.
This is my stuff and I explain that to my
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Getting Inside A Man’s Head To Know What He Looks For In A Soulmate
When I first met Orna, I kept telling her that she was everything I was looking for. I knew deep down that this was the woman for me, even if on the surface I was still just getting to know her. If you’re interested in understanding what a man looks for in a soulmate then please continue reading to find out how I knew Orna was the one for me.
The summer before I met Orna I dated a woman named Susan who I thought was the perfect woman for me. She was a yoga teacher and a meditator. She was a vegan who grew her own organic produce in her back yard. She was dedicated to her personal and spiritual growth. She loved camping and the great outdoors. And she had dark curly
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How Long Does It Take To Heal A Broken Heart (From Soulmate Coaches Who Know)
If you are suffering from a broken heart, you may fall into the trap of believing that your feelings of hurt, sadness, or betrayal will never end. If you find yourself wondering exactly how long does it take to heal a broken heart, we’ve laid out the healing journey for you.
Neither of us found love early or easily. We became Love Coaches because we both struggled into our 40s to find lasting love. We both suffered our share of heartbreak and know from personal experience that you can move on from your grief and find soul-satisfying, long-lasting love on the other side.
How long it takes to heal from a broken heart may not be a prescribed timeframe that fits
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Tired Of Being Single? 8 Reasons To Celebrate This Time In Your Life
Are you tired of being single? Feeling frustrated that your guy hasn’t shown up yet, or sick of meeting the wrong man online over and over again?
This isn’t a time to focus on what you don’t have. Instead focus on celebrating you and enjoying this time of your life. So much of life is what you make of it. Why not take this time to step into a bigger vision of yourself and your life? As the saying goes, “There’s no time like the present!”
When you focus on what’s good in your life and use your time to learn and grow, then no matter what happens – you win!
Let’s take a dive into how you can use this time to discover, learn, explore, and celebrate.
8 Reasons to
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How To Feel Good About Yourself And Leave The Past In The Past
It happens to everyone, sometimes in life you just feel stuck. Nothing seems to work and it all feels like it’s your fault or like the world is conspiring against you. It’s like you’re stuck at red light, after red light, after red light. You just wish you knew how to feel good about yourself and your life so you can finally leave the past in the past.
Feelings of helplessness and hopelessness can show up any time in your life, but they can be commonplace during a break-up. The problem is, it can be difficult to take action when you feel this way. You end up telling yourself that you’ll do what you need to do when you feel better.
Unfortunately you won’t magically
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Should I Choose My Twin Flame Over A Man Who Seems Good For Me, Or Follow My Heart Instead?
This week's question comes from Alicia:
"Dear Orna and Matthew,
I’m so grateful I found out about you two a couple of years ago. You give me hope! Here’s my question… a guy I thought was my twin flame recently showed back up in my life. Years ago he broke my heart and I’ve done a lot of work to forgive him for what happened.
The problem is there is a guy at work who I’ve started dating. He’s a great guy and I can tell he is crazy about me. There’s no issue about dating in the workplace, we are in completely different departments. A lot of my colleagues and friends think he’s really good for me and I can see what a stand-up guy he is.
The thing is, I don’t find
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