One of the most common questions we get from our clients is how will they know when they meet their soulmate, as if there will be some lightening bolt that will strike them and the heavens will part and a clear signal will be delivered. The truth is when a man truly loves you it will be obvious and you’ll know that a soul connection is possible.
So instead of spending all of your energy looking for the hidden signs that your guy is ready for the next level, relax and trust that it will be clear to you what his intentions are by his actions.
Of course you could Google “How to Get A Man To Marry You” where you’ll get over 22 million results with titles like:
“How
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Why Men Love Bitches
This week's question comes from Christine:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
I have been reading your newsletters for years and I think you give the best dating advice for women. One of the things I like the most is that I get input from both a man and a woman! I am super curious what you will think of my question. Why do men love bitches more than nice girls?
I know I’m an attractive woman – getting dates is not hard for me. I do end up being broken-hearted by the men I really like and I know I’ve broken my fair share of men’s hearts too.
We often hear about the “nice” guy who is not given his due by women – but what about the Nice Gal?
When I meet a guy I REALLY like I
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Are You Tired Of Being Alone? Here’s How To Turn Your Focus So You Don’t Become Bitter
We hear from so many women who are tired of being alone and are looking for a new way to create love. It’s easy to get caught in the mindset trap that there is something wrong with you (or the world) because you are single. And when you commiserate with your single friends you hear the same dating and relationship horror stories that you’ve experienced yourself.
It’s enough to make you bitter about relationships and once again committed to your career instead of finding your soulmate.
It’s time to take a new look at loneliness so that instead of feeling tired of being alone, you can re-frame the whole experience into something that spurs you on towards the
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Is Chivalry Dead And Other Questions Women Ask As They Grow Frustrated In Their Search For Love
Is Chivalry Dead & Other Questions Women Ask As They Grow Frustrated In Their Search For Love
So many women we speak with are confused by the way the men they meet are behaving. Men don’t call you up and ask you out for a date; they text the day of to see if you are available to hang out. Men act interested, only to disappear into thin air. Men press for sex but go M.I.A. when you mention the word commitment. It’s enough to make you ask, “Is chivalry dead?”
These same women also desire to be with men who treat them like a queen, step up when help is needed, and are supportive of their career.
So what happened? Why has it become so difficult for men and women to
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5 Skills For How To Heal A Broken Heart And Move On
One of the hardest things you will ever experience in life is a broken heart. You start a relationship with so much hope and yet by the time it is over, that hope is on life-support and you’re curled up into a ball and crying your eyes out. If only you knew how to heal a broken heart and move on.
It seems like each time your heart breaks, it hardens a little as you swear you will never let that happen to you again.
The truth is you can learn how to heal a broken heart and move on, becoming better at love – more vulnerable, more loving, more skilled at making it last – when you decide to learn and grow from the experience instead of being broken by it.
Whether you
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Over 40? What Emotional Baggage Are You Carting Around That’s Keeping You Single
It’s time to leave your old emotional baggage behind so that you can create the kind of love that you want!
Let’s face it, as you get older it can feel like it is harder to meet someone who isn’t carrying a cartload of emotional baggage. Just listen to the dating horror stories that you and your friends exchange with each other. It can feel like dating is hopeless for those moving into the second half of life.
But the problem isn’t just with all the weirdos you may meet on some random app or dating site. The truth is you’ve got some of your own baggage that is getting in the way of your relationship success. You may not be aware of it, but you’re probably carrying
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