This week's question comes from Jamie:
"Hi O&M,
I’ve been reading your emails for nearly 7 years. I love watching your webinars, and seeing your straight up approach to answering questions. Now here is mine:
How do I know if he’s the one?
I’ve been through your Soulmate Shortcut course nearly 4 years ago and by following everything you laid out step-by-step I ended up in a great relationship with a fabulous guy.
After being divorced, with work and taking care of my kids, I just didn’t think I had the time to figure things out how to do a relationship differently, and the last thing I wanted was to end up at the same place again with everything falling
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5 Dating Tips For The Holiday Season
This week's question comes from Terry:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
With the holidays approaching I’m just dreading being single. The rest of the year, I’m okay with it. My life is full, I go on plenty of dates, I love my life… once the calendar flips to December it’s like I become a different person… super anxious and uncomfortable getting to know someone new.
I’m stressed out about being single. I hate going on first dates until after Valentine’s Day and I’ve often taken all my profiles down from Thanksgiving through mid-February.
There must be another way, please help!"
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Hi Terry,
Thank you for reaching out and for asking for help. There is another way
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Truth About Love Blocks
This week's question comes from Rebecca:
"Hey Orna and Matthew,
I just love you two! You’re always sharing the best of the best through your own experience and with your clients. I find it refreshing and truly awesome.
I hear from all over the place about “love blocks.” I’ve heard them called road blocks, subconscious blocks, blocks you’re not aware of, blocks to love, etc.
It appears there are all kinds of solutions to these blocks from having conversations with your parents (if they are alive), getting closure from speaking with an ex, to writing things down and burning them, etc.
What’s the deal with these so-called blocks? How can I get rid of something
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Biggest Dating Mistake!
This week's question comes from Stephanie:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
I’m reaching out because I feel really hurt and I really like the advice the two of you give.
After a few years of not dating at all I decided to put myself out there again and went on a couple dating apps and a dating site. My friends helped me with my profile and my pictures and I was feeling pretty good about all that.
Then the moment came when I published it all and waited to see the guys who would reach out to me.
The 2nd guy to ping me was super hot! I couldn’t believe my luck. We wrote back and forth a few times. Then we spoke on the phone a couple times. He had to leave town for work
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You & The Empathic Man…
This week's question comes from Marcie:
“Dear Orna and Matthew,
I’ve been dating a great guy for a few months and he’s really different from the type of man I’ve dated in the past. He clearly loves me deeply and has a sensitive heart. At times I feel like he is so in tune with how I’m feeling and it feels really incredible.
The men I used to date didn’t ever seem to care about me at all, really a bunch of insensitive jerks.
I am so grateful to have him in my life and I don’t want to do anything to lose him, so I’m writing to you for your help and advice.
The problem is that sometimes it seems like he’s not present with me at all. I can’t get a sense of him.
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Does Resiliency Block You From Love?
This week's question comes from Mary:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
I’ve been sitting on this question for you two for a while now because I’m not sure how to ask it or if you’d understand me. I know I’m a smart, sophisticated, and sensual woman and to put it bluntly, I’m exhausted.
I am tired of doing everything. I am the responsible one. I get shit done.
I’ve overcome a lot of adversity in my life. I pride myself on being resilient.
I’m the one everyone comes to when they need help. I’m capable – highly capable.
My adrenal glands are burnt out. I’ve crashed and burned. My health has suffered and my sanity has suffered.
I don’t want to be some passive meek
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