This week's question comes from Jahari:
"Hello Orna and Matthew,
I really need your help! I’m reaching out because I think you two give the best dating advice… here’s my story:
I have been single for 15 years. I've "peeked out" periodically to try forming relationships with a few men who seemed eligible. A couple men were emotionally unavailable and seemed to want a relationship, but I soon figured out they wanted sex without commitment.
I have a LOT on the ball. I am very giving, while being able to receive as well. I am attractive, look and feel much younger than my chronological years, am a health professional (Raw Vegan Chef/Health & Nutrition Coach).
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How to get rid of Limiting Beliefs?
This week's question comes from Sonia:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
I feel rather embarrassed to ask you this, as I am a coach myself. With all the work I’ve done on myself and all the work I do with my clients I am still single and even though I know WHY I am the way I am, and I know WHY I’m having a hard time creating my ideal love relationship, I can’t seem to do it.
What is the secret to removing limiting beliefs?"
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Hi Sonia,
Thank you for reaching out to us. There is no shame in asking a question and we’re thrilled that you asked us this one.
There are great coaches out there, and we have no doubt you do great work with your clients. We all have
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Who will love me if I’m overweight?
This week's question comes from Deb:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
Do you have any suggestions for finding love when you are overweight? I feel like men don't give me an opportunity because of my size.
Recently I started going to the gym and I've modified my dietary habits. It's frustrating that appearance seems to be more important than being intelligent or emotionally balanced.
Thanks!"
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Dear Deb,
Congratulations on taking actions to feel better about yourself! And we think whether you are working out or not, the problem is not your weight.
Over the years we’ve helped thousands of women find their Beloved and those women have come in all shapes,
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How do I start dating again?
This week's question comes from Nickie:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
I really need the best dating advice to help me with this situation. I hope you can help.
I have been out of a long-term relationship for about 3 months though it was over about a year before. I know it is over and see why it could not work with us. A couple of nights ago friends introduced me to a man who seemed completely into me and we just clicked and he was so easy to talk to. The problem is we had such a great time and after a little too much alcohol we got intimate. Have I completely ruined the chance of a possible relationship? Will he never respect me? And if he does call how can I change this
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Why do I have to change for love?
This week's question comes from Shellie:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
I am so grateful for the two of you. I watch all your webinars and I read your newsletter weekly. You give a completely unique point of view about love and relationships that for me adds up to the best dating advice.
Here’s my question: Why do I have to be the one to change in order for love to come in?
Every week in your newsletter there’s a beautiful quote at the top that often says how we are born as love and that love is our birthright. So if that’s true, how come I have to do something differently for that love to show up for me?"
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Hi Shellie,
Thank you so much for your positive
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Is your love-ability on the line?
This week's question comes from Trudie:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
I think you two are awesome! I love watching you interact on your webinars, it’s clear that you are real people who love one another. Thank you for being a shining example of what it is that I want!
Since I read your weekly notes I know that you’re always advising to date A LOT, so that’s what I’ve been doing. Unfortunately, I am not getting the results that I want and I think I may be feeling a bit depressed about it.
I get plenty of action online and offline from guys but nothing seems to really go anywhere. I can’t remember dating someone for longer than a couple of months. Whether I’m crazy
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