This week's question comes from Jame:
"Dear Orna and Matthew,
I'm a weekly reader of your Love Notes and have found much value in your advice. I've learned a lot but I’m still struggling because something happened and he stopped chasing me. I don’t know why he’s not pursuing me anymore.
Overall I find that the men I’m interested in seem to lose interest and stop pursuing me. It’s like I’m left holding the bag. Not exactly being ghosted, because if I reach out he’ll respond, but he’s no longer initiating contact.
This has happened enough times that I am seeing it as my pattern, but now I don’t know what to do with that information. So what’s next? How do I get a
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Dating 101
How important is chemistry between two people for lasting love?
This week's question comes from Bianca:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
I have a question about the importance of chemistry between two people.
I’ve been dating this guy for about 4 months and he is unlike any of the men I’ve dated in the past. He is kind, thoughtful, and he seems to really like me. He says he wants to be with me and I believe him.
After reading a bunch of books and listening to webinars I know that how the guy treats me is the thing to pay attention to.
It’s clear to me that this man is a good and kind man. His behavior shows me that I am a priority for him.
I want to know if you think that is enough?
I’ve made mistakes choosing guys I had a lot
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The Myth of the Quality Man – 6 Reality Checks Every Single Woman Needs To Take To Heart
This week's question comes from Nicole:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
I have a question for your blog. I think you have good advice and I want to hear what you think about finding a quality man to date. It’s also nice to hear from a couple that is truly in love.
I’ve done a ton of personal growth and spiritual work and the more I evolve and grow the more it seems finding a quality man just keeps getting harder and harder. I don’t want to sound critical but the men I meet just don’t match up with me.
The good ones are not online. The men I meet online are mostly blue-collar men or guys who don’t have their life together. I don’t want to be some man’s mother and I really
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8 Signs You’re Tired Of Being Single
How do you know when you are finally ready to make the leap and change your dating strategies? You first must recognize the signs you’re tired of being single.
Do you feel conflicted with jealousy and joy when your friends get engaged?
Are you stuck in the dating desert and just want to meet your guy so you can get on with the rest of your life as you planned?
Do you fear being left behind by your group of friends who are all getting married and having babies?
These feelings are signs that you’re tired of being single and are ready to break through to something lasting in your love life.
One of the biggest mistakes people make is that they don’t take
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Should I Choose My Twin Flame Over A Man Who Seems Good For Me, Or Follow My Heart Instead?
This week's question comes from Alicia:
"Dear Orna and Matthew,
I’m so grateful I found out about you two a couple of years ago. You give me hope! Here’s my question… a guy I thought was my twin flame recently showed back up in my life. Years ago he broke my heart and I’ve done a lot of work to forgive him for what happened.
The problem is there is a guy at work who I’ve started dating. He’s a great guy and I can tell he is crazy about me. There’s no issue about dating in the workplace, we are in completely different departments. A lot of my colleagues and friends think he’s really good for me and I can see what a stand-up guy he is.
The thing is, I don’t find
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How Do You Know If A Man Truly Loves You Enough To Create A Soul Connection
One of the most common questions we get from our clients is how will they know when they meet their soulmate, as if there will be some lightening bolt that will strike them and the heavens will part and a clear signal will be delivered. The truth is when a man truly loves you it will be obvious and you’ll know that a soul connection is possible.
So instead of spending all of your energy looking for the hidden signs that your guy is ready for the next level, relax and trust that it will be clear to you what his intentions are by his actions.
Of course you could Google “How to Get A Man To Marry You” where you’ll get over 22 million results with titles like:
“How
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