This week's question comes from Tali:
"Hi Orna and Matthew
Thanks for all the great work you do! I've bought a few of your programs and love them!!
My question is stemming from your recent response to Joyce's question that you answered last week.
I understand the dynamics of feminine and masculine energy, and you mentioned “stay in the energy (the one you choose/prefer) during the dating process.”
The guy I'm dating has asked me to be exclusive but does that mean now I can be a bit more in my masculine? (I'm wondering what you meant by stay in your specific energy ONLY during the dating process and once you’re in a committed relationship you can shift a
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Do I ask him out?
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
I really think you two are so adorable together and that you give the best dating advice. I’m curious what you’ll think about my situation…
I know this guy and I really like him. I have a membership to the museum in our town and I know he used to, but he gave up his membership. There’s a new exhibit and I am wondering if I should invite him because I have the tickets.
What do you think?"
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Hi Joyce,
Thank you for asking us what we think of you asking this guy out. You let us know that you like him… but not much else.
We are curious about the kind of relationship you want.
When you think about how you would like your intimate
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I know he is not right for me
This week's question comes from Marni:
"Dearest Orna and Matthew,
How can I shift/release/realign the incredibly painful belief that I am not wanted? I can't believe the pain I feel over this again…
I find that I am deeply triggered by a guy I KNOW IS NOT RIGHT FOR ME when I found out he’s in touch with other women… what makes this even worse is that we are just friends.
Huge appreciation for your dating advice."
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Hi Marni,
We feel for your aching heart and we want you to know that the charge you have on this guy is not because he is “The One” for you. Your Beloved will be available for you, he will choose you, and he will pursue you.
The world
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What if I’ve lost my soulmate?
This week's question comes from Sam:
"Hi Orna and Matthew,
I hope you can help me. I married my soulmate in 2001 we divorced in 2004 he cheated and I couldn't forget it. It took me years to date again and although I've had some relationships not one of them has fulfilled me and I feel like I've ended up back thinking about my ex husband. He comes into my dreams when I feel sad. The men I meet are takers selfish and unsupportive. Help."
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Hi Sam,
We understand you’ve been through a traumatic experience and often these experiences stick with us long after they occur. The truth is we don’t only get ONE soulmate in life.
We wouldn’t consider your
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Is it ever okay to pursue a man?
This week's question comes from Joann:
"Dear Orna and Matthew,
I have a general question about men and pursuing. I’ve heard from a lot of dating and relationship experts who mention that some men are shy and have a difficult time pursuing a woman. I call them the fisherman, and the pursuers I refer to as hunters. I know according to He Is Just Not That Into You, that a woman should never pursue a man. Anyway, what would you say about the fisherman? Do you think it is ok to pursue a man to a certain extent?
Thank you."
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Hi Joann,
Thank you for your very straightforward question. There is absolutely nothing wrong with a woman pursing a man as long as
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How do I overcome my fear?
This week's question comes from Carol:
"Dear Orna and Matthew,
I hope you can help me. I’m stuck in fear and don’t know what to do.
I'm in a relationship where we use each other. He uses me as a part time companion whom he'll never marry (he's never been married and never will). I use him because we have a wonderful physical life together and we go out to places and events I enjoy. We do care a great deal for each other though I know I care more for him than he does me.
I have been single and dating in Los Angeles for at least 12 years now. I've met some very nice men where there is just friendship but no physical attraction. I've done the dance scene, the
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