This week's question comes from Lisa:
Dear Orna and Matthew,
I've enjoyed your work for a while now and have a question.
I’ve been on the self-growth and healing path for most of my lifetime and specifically working on relationship stuff for the past 5 years.
After healing through my divorce in 2012 and a toxic relationship later. I believe I've met someone really truly sent for me. We've been seeing each other about 6 months and it is by far and away the healthiest relationship I've ever had, and probably the first with a self-responsible, emotionally fluent, quality MAN. It’s been an interesting road for me in learning how to trust and receive and I'm proud of
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Blocks to Love
Do I intimidate men?
This week's question comes from Debi:
Hi Orna and Matthew,
I have been following the two of you for a very long time and I just love seeing how you relate to each other. It’s obvious how much you love each other and I think you’re such a great example of a loving couple.
I’m curious about your thoughts about what men want. I hear from all my friends that because I’m a powerful woman that I intimidate men.
It’s clear that Orna is a powerful woman and since here you both are – one man, one woman – I thought I’d ask you if this is true.
I am so tired of doing it all even though I love my job and my kids, it’d be really great to share my life with one special
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How Do I Not Lose Faith?
This week's question comes from Alexandra:
Greetings Orna and Matthew,
I've enjoyed your love notes weekly.
My question is: How do I not lose faith/ inspiration that Love is out there for me?
Live Well.
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Dear Alexandra,
This is an important question and one that we’re sure many of our readers struggle with. Really what you’re asking is how do you keep hope alive, or where can you find inspiration.
The truth is that what we believe to be true, is what is true for us.
Yes – YOU are that powerful!
Each of us was given Free Will and it is the most powerful force in the universe. Most people want to abdicate their power because with that power
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Isn’t accidental love more romantic?
This week's question comes from Patricia:
Hi Orna and Matthew,
Isn’t it more romantic when you meet someone out of the blue and sparks fly? The idea of doing all this work to find my soulmate sounds exhausting!
I would love to know what you have against romance.
Do you really believe that there’s any difference between falling in love and loving someone? If so, what is it?
Seriously confused.
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Hello Patricia,
Thanks for jumping in and giving us a challenge! We’ve heard this a lot and while Creating Love On Purpose® might sound unromantic, just the opposite is true.
Here’s what we know about the accidental, “Whoops! I slipped on a banana peel
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Is Your Picker Broken?
This week's question comes from Susan:
Hello Orna and Matthew,
I have been getting your emails ever since I subscribed last month after I purchased The Soulmate Shortcut™. It's a great book, thank you so much for writing it.
I still worry though. My friend and I are in our 30s and feel the same. We keep only ever attracting the wrong men, who seem great in the beginning only to let us down in the end.
My last relationship was with a guy who was so romantic, he proposed to me. He was really focused on our relationship. However, he was trying to turn me into what he wanted me to be rather than appreciating me for who I am. He had no interest in me as a person and
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Meant to Be?
This week's question comes from Tarryn:
Dear Orna and Mathew.
I have a question if you don't mind. All these techniques, internal work, etc. are great and I truly follow it and try to practice this work. However if you're with the wrong partner (for instance if I'm with a boyfriend who isn't my match/soulmate) then I could do all the internal work in the world and we still wouldn't be able to have that soulmate/relationship we want correct?
It just frustrates me that this work is incredibly great but it really wouldn't make a difference if you're with the wrong person for you? Would love to hear your opinions. For instance, even if you would have done all this
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